Starting Again  

true_red1000 45F
155 posts
4/3/2006 7:59 pm

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4/6/2006 7:22 pm

Starting Again

Because I had my cell phone stolen, I have had to start all over entering in names and phone #'s into my new phone, and one thing I realized by doing this is that I have more guy friends than friends that are girls.

I have two best friends in the whole world
Haylee & Melissa. Haylee lives in another state and Melissa well lets just say she is gone away for a while.

Other wise all the other names in my cell are guys- yes some are family and some are what I refer to as marriage friends. These are the friends that either I had or Dan had before we were married.

Why don't I have any women friends??? I am not a bitch- very much the other side of the mirror. I am a great person to be around. I have a lot of women that I know. I work with almost all women, I know when at my church, I know other moms from my son's school. But I don't think of any of them as my friend.

I have a friend ( guy) who I use to work with at my last job and he told me once that I am not happy unless I have the " next big thing" happening in my life - for example the planning of my wedding, the buying of our house, the birth of my kids, my birthday.... Well now that I have no BIG thing on the horizon- except for ther fact in finding a boyfriend... I am also going to make my mision to find a female friend. Get your mind out of the gutters I think a female friend would be great. one person who I could go shopping with.

Or out to a chick movie- and someone who I can tell all of my secret life too... where to start looking - I have no clue but It's my next big thing...

4-3 Bill **1/2

rm_xtreem247 55M

4/4/2006 6:26 pm

Starting again, in more ways than one. I figured you would. Don't you hate having to put all those names and numbers in a new phone? The good thing is, it's like spring cleaning. You can get rid of the one's you haven't used in the last 8months.
Starting again finding a best friend is something I should really do too. Do guys really have best friends? I think some do but not nearly as many as women.
Glad to see you found your "next big thing"!

zuluwise 34M

4/5/2006 3:46 pm

well as bad as it sounds............

i think you have an easier time finding a boyfriend then you will finding a new female friend.......

i have seen from other girl-friends (not girlfriends) that finding another chick to open up to is not as easy as it was when you were little.

so i trully do wish you luck

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