Check Your Definition  

trish778 43F
259 posts
12/15/2005 7:58 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Check Your Definition

I had wondered why I was getting a lot of emails from guys who are either married or in a serious relationship. For the life of me, I couldn't figure out why, especially since I had my preference status set to Single.

Not until I got this email did realization set in:

Sorry I thought you were looking for discreet relationships.. read your profile and thought that I would be good to meet up..

May I ask what you are looking for?


Discreet is not synonymous to Clandestine. But to be sure I wasn't dreaming up the difference between these two words, I checked AdultFriendFinder's glossary versus online dictionaries.


No wonder. I was the one who was naive to think that Discreet Relationships meant being cautious, maintaining a low profile (meaning taken from online dictionaries); not because it is a secret but because it is something new.

To put an end to receiving such emails from married men, I have decided to delete Discreet Relationship from the "looking for" section of my profile.

Problem solved. Hopefully.

im_your_man77 39M
961 posts
12/15/2005 9:41 am

You hope, lol. Hope and reality on AdultFriendFinder is two entirely different things. You'll still probably get similar emails from the illiterate.

gnr8nrg 46M

12/15/2005 12:29 pm

Yeah, Trish's Blog I had thought discreet means something similar too. There will be the ones that just don't care what you're looking for and will try anyhow.

trish778 43F

12/16/2005 6:19 am

man77: yeah, i quickly found out how RIGHT you are! oh well... puts the "fun" in things

trish778 43F

12/16/2005 6:21 am

G: very true

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