Why do people cheat??  

trinity8126 35F
45 posts
3/16/2006 9:23 am

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Why do people cheat??


So I'm curious as to why people cheat. I'm with someone now, and before I had turned off my AdultFriendFinder profile people kept saying, "just cheat on him, he doesn't have to know...blah.blah.blah" Why is it so hard for people to accept a "no" from me? I've never had the desire to cheat on someone. But of course I'm not innocent of it either. I was 16 years old...good grief. And it was just a kiss....and...um...a blow job, but that's besides the point. The guy I was with was emotionally abusive to me so I was just rebelling against him. Anyways, besides that I've never cheated. My ex-fiance cheated on me. And I wonder why sometimes. What did I do wrong? My dad cheated on my mom. What did she do wrong? My best friend of 12 years, his wife cheated on him for like a year before they got married. And yet they still got married. Isn't there the saying once a cheater always a cheater? Is it true I wonder?? The only reason I'm bringing this whole thing up is because of a stupid dream. I dreamt that I drove out to NM to surprise wiggly worm. I get up to his room, the door is closed but I hear the sounds of someone fucking. I open the door and he's having sex with some woman. I walk in and I start crying and screaming at him. But they don't hear me. It's like I don't exist. I want to leave but I can't get away. They keep going at it, and then he turns to me and says "you deserve this." And at that point I wake up in a panic. Now what the hell does that mean???

loadeddice05 44M

3/18/2006 1:29 pm

I think once you've cheated it blurrs the line that stopped you from doing it before. Since that lines not there anymore. You can sort of rationalize it!! I know I have my own set of rules on the subject!! I do not condone cheating!! But, Alot more people do it than admit to it!!! Sad but true!!


gismeuc 55M  
13 posts
3/23/2006 8:25 pm

its a sad thing to think how far away we have drifted from being sincere to being dishonest...and yet that is almost a common practice-doesn't make it right.never has --never will.


loadeddice05 44M

3/25/2006 7:00 am

    Quoting gismeuc:
    its a sad thing to think how far away we have drifted from being sincere to being dishonest...and yet that is almost a common practice-doesn't make it right.never has --never will.
BEEN CHEATED ON HAVE YA?? Put some clothes on!!


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