Married Men And Taken Men  

trinihoney123 31F
70 posts
10/31/2005 5:51 am

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Married Men And Taken Men

I have a question was the sex with your committed partner not great ever or just started? I never knew of a bunch of unhappy sexually married man!!! Im just wondering!

rm_32cowboy72 44M
9 posts
10/31/2005 6:46 am

Let me tell ya! When my wife and I first started dating wow the sex was great. We have been married for over ten year now and I am still waiting for her sexual prime to kick in. They say with women it happens later than men and she just turned 36. Now it seems like we have sex maybe once a month and then she always says lets just do a quickie, under the covers lights off. I feel as if I am performing some kind of duty rather than enjoying a moment with someone.

BoBoBlazinski 62M

10/31/2005 6:53 am

My wife and I had the hottest relationship including after we had kids. We did everything and were an adventuresome couple. She has since gone through the change (early I might add) and she doesn't want anything to do with me sexually. I have tried and tried to discuss this with her. She refuses to talk about our past passion. It's an extreme case of denial. I have tried everything including getting a sybian hoping that would wake her up (she won't even try it)but the hormones will not cooperate. So here I am. I am not angry or unhappy but only because I have now accepted it. But being human I do need intimate contact and it's not happening. So I signed up for this site. I have been truthful in my profile. I do not want to leave her but I also have needs.

rm_markidx 51M

10/31/2005 7:25 am


I think that I can speak to this question. Sex with my committed partner has always been great. My wife is a very sexual person, and our love life is excellent. The real issue is niether quality or quantity, at least in my case. It is more that at times I long for something different.

After getting married I still saw beautiful women everyday, everywhere. There is simply no way to turn off that attraction mechanism when you commit to another person. In my case, my wife I have other problems, such as communication with each other. For me this hinders sexual pleasure, because all the great love making in the world won't fix this problem.

So it isn't always that the sex isn't great. In a lot of cases there are other circumstances that drive men to seek gratification elsewhere, where the pressures of the home life don't interfere. I sincerely hope this sheds at least some light on your question.


pcoastcouple 48M/42F

10/31/2005 7:53 am

Well my husband isnt sexually unhappy. I LOVE that he hooks up with other women. It turns me on. I love to see the excitment (meeting someone for the first time) that he gets when getting ready for a date. I especially like it when he comes back from being with another woman, tells me all the details and we make love.

While strange to some, it is normal and erotic to us. We are swingers, we are open and this is the lifestyle we choose.

Now if he were to have an affair behind my back I would leave him in a second. But if I know about it it is cool with me.

My wish was that more women were open minded enough to get involved with him. We would love to find a bi sexual woman to have a long term sexual relationship with him and let me play at times too.

So you see not all married men on here are unhappy! It just depends on which ones you are talking about.

roosterrrr 66M
1 post
10/31/2005 10:25 am

I have great sex with my wife----but she will not do anal and it's nice ti play with BIG tits sometimes

trinihoney123 31F
5 posts
11/1/2005 11:01 am

Thanks to everyone who responded! I guess I have an understanding, or at least a better one of why people decide to go outside there marriage. I dont neccesarily think its a good reason, but I understand that everybody has their reasons and their needs.

thanks Shardae

rm_safeforfun 40M

1/8/2006 1:09 pm

you're a rare find shardae, open and understanding, wish i could be like you. here's my advice to those who give two shits: IF YOUR MARRIAGE BLOWS ASS, MAYBE YOU SHOULD GET A DIVORCE! it's what i would do, then go fuck someone else. but then what i know? NOTHING

HornyMonkey71 45M
1 post
1/17/2006 8:46 pm

You interest me get in touch. Here or at saru71 on

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