Enchanting Ranting......  

travelingintexas 41M
9/24/2005 11:55 pm
Enchanting Ranting......

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I am pretty sure this question has been asked before. Does size.... oops wrong question! Sorry!

Do you believe every one has a soul mate? That there is someone out there you are waiting to meet? That when you do meet them your north is south and everything is now different? This person eclipses all others and everything else fades away.

Or do you believe in fate? Predestination? Here you have a future mapped out and theyWILL show up.

Or are we all wandering around until we find someone we click with and hoping for the best?

rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
9/25/2005 12:47 am

I kind of agree with the final one you listed, wandering around until we find someone we click with and hope for the best. Someone will probably say I'm being pessimistic, but when you think you've found the "one" and it doesn't work the way you want it too, that can cause some serious heartbreak.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.

anchcpl4fun 40M/44F

9/25/2005 1:22 am

you already know what i think....didnt i post that in a past entry....lol

anchcpl4fun 40M/44F

9/25/2005 1:23 am

and yes, size matters

anchcpl4fun 40M/44F

9/25/2005 1:26 am

ooops. my mistake, that wasnt your blog.....so many i cant keep track

Mr_sweetness 44M
2599 posts
9/25/2005 2:30 am

I beleive in fate i beleive in destiny i beleive in my soul mate i beleive that my sweet angel is out there and will come my way....God has smiled on me and the world by creating a beautifull soul such as hers i know there are alot of other guys on here who feel the same way about her as i do but i can only hope wish and pray and dream that i will get my one chance to see if she is my one true angel...But only the good lord above decides the fate of that...i only hope he hears my prayers at nite...But in my heart i feel she is the one and i have not met her yet i live so close to her but yet so far...I can not give up my faith on this one chance....May god bless me on this and may god bless you....for now all i can do is dream and pray she will give me my one chance until then i will hold her in my thoughts wishes prayers and in my heart...May you find your one true soul mate....God bless and peeeeeeeeeeeeeeace

Peace, cause there is to much violence and blood shed in the world!!

Love, cause there is to much hate in the world!!

Happiness, cause it feels good and life is to short to be mean and unhappy all the time!!

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
9/25/2005 2:53 am

bit of both although boney was no chance he was a friend of about a dozen friends for 10 years before we actually met


someonelikeithot 50F

9/25/2005 5:04 am

I do believe in soul mates (we have more then one!). But, I also believe that depending on what you journey is in this life, you may or may not meet them or if you do you, you will most probably recognize it but it might well be that you are not meant to share this life together!
OK...complicated! Many will not understand what the heck I am talking about, but to expand on this would take a few pages, so I will leave it at that!... xxx

madkitten 53F
291 posts
9/25/2005 5:27 am

I believe in fate, and that all things happen for a reason, I just wish they would let me in on whats going to happen, but then I would just want to jump to the good bits and miss all the bad out, and the bad happens to us for some reason, even if its only to learn from.

Soul mates I have no idea about, I would like to think yes, but until you have maybe met them, its hard to believe that you will.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/25/2005 6:49 am

Fate? Yes. I believe people are brought together for a reason, friends and lovers alike.

Soulmates? Yes. Someone who occupies your thoughts, stimulates your senses, shares your passions, delights in your accomplishments, supports your every decision. No, it doesn't have to be a sexual interest.

Destiny? No. We choose our own destiny, it's not laid out before us.

Wandering around waiting for that special click? Some, perhaps. A lonely form of limbo waiting for what may be a lifetime for this person to surface. Others know what they want and desire and won't settle for anything less. They don't "wander," they actively "seek."

Just my thoughts.

Synn74 42F
1206 posts
9/25/2005 7:25 am

yes I believe my true Soul mate lives in Australia with his wife..
and he has changed my life since 8/24/04..
we may never meet in this lifetime but I wouldn't change anything for the moments he has brought me within my life..

I welcome you to the House of Syn...

dano6332 56M

9/25/2005 9:03 am

Trav, I believe we do have soul mates. People we meet and simply click with on every level down to our soul. I also dont think we are predestined to meet so instead we "connect" with who we can and hope to make them a soul mate. Leads to disappointment but that is life. I am not knocking it but if I had a wish it would be that we all had a chance to be with our soul mate and never to settle.

rm_magnet4u22 49F
18406 posts
9/25/2005 10:02 am

I do believe we have a soul mate. And, if we are lucky enough to find them, the hope is that they realize it, as well.


barbiebunny 36F
5597 posts
9/25/2005 2:03 pm

yes u hard headed texan...and its me. lmao nut up

Its good to be...ME

yagottalikit 49F
583 posts
9/25/2005 2:50 pm

Fate? yes.......the soulmate thing? No. For one, everyone has a different view on just what a "soulmate" is. I know that I have loved and lost....was he my soulmate? That's it? That's all I get? I now must live out my life knowing I no longer have some one out there for me? I don't think so.
The last one rings true for me more than anything.

Yagotta get it soft and wet so we can kick/stick it

PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
9/25/2005 2:54 pm

Yes, I believe in soulmates. I have been deeply touched by several persons during my life and travels, and I am convinced we have more than one soulmate during our lifetime, depending on the moment we met them. One person may be our soulmate in our twenties, but if it doesn't occur then, we may find a diferent soulmate in our thirties who fits the person we are now. (I know my twentysomethings soulmate would have grown with me had we been together, but we took different paths.)

Unfortunately, it seems to be my fate to never find one who longs for me as I long for him... Maybe that's why my Shadow is a leopard, because I must resign myself to walk alone through life.

Still, I keep hoping he will find me someday, and recognize me as I recognize him.

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

34andahalf4U 49M/44F

9/25/2005 5:00 pm

(him) You've asked a loaded question there,T-N-T. There is no way for me to answer it without getting all metaphysical on you(someone like it hot knows). Let's define a soulmate this way: someone that enters your life for a purpose. With that in mind, we are 'destined' to have more than one. Princess touched on it; we are at different places in our lives all the time(hopefully), evolving, growing, remembering who it is that we WANT to be.

(don't waste all that time on 'finding' yourself, use it to recreate yourself)

Each relationship we have gives us an opportunity to re-define who we are and what we will allow in our experience; some of these relationships must 'fail' in order for us to discover a thing about ourselves that isn't working. If that person came along to remind us to think aboout(yes, I'm from up north, near Canadia)who we should be working to be. If it takes the person leaving to do that, and spiritualy that was the intent, then was it truely 'failed'?

I wouln't be who I am today without this happening to me. I've suffered and hated myself, pondered and forgiven myself. Without the night, could we fully appreciate the Sun? The soulmate that's come to my life now may be the one that I get to stay with for many, many years because the sacrifices(love)from the others reminded me to be the best person that I can. I've heard it said by my elders that those who challenge us the most, truely love us the most, for it's in the challenge that we face the opportunity for growth.

Or........we ARE just kinda muddling thru like a bunch of SIMS caracters, hoping for the one that can tolerate our crap.LOL

(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/25/2005 5:18 pm

I believe we have a variety of scenarios that are layed out for us. Kind of like chess, where there may be pre-determined paths, but depending on how you move will detrmine the events and people that enter your life. If we do not act upon certain situations, we lose them. The premise of "If it is meant to be, it will be"...IS WRONG.
We all have free will, hence whether you go to heaven or hell, for those that believe in that type of thing. Your test, your opportunities. etc...maybe they are fate, but what you do with them is completely in your control...

KhaosKitty 42F
123 posts
9/25/2005 6:43 pm

I believe that there are soul mates. I don't think that there's a rule saying that you only have one, though. Or that your soul mate necessarily has to be a love/mate/spouse. I have had friends that I could tell anything to, who understood even before I uttered a word, who I never had sex with. And I have had animalistic, vicious, wonderful sex with people who mattered not a wit. Well, one person. Who was a mistake. But the sex was good, so... Anyway, you get the point.

rm_luke69iner 48M
3275 posts
9/25/2005 11:10 pm

If there are soul mates, i don't believe many people find theirs in their lifetime which confounds any conclusion that there are soulmates i guess

Free had a good post on this the "soul mate" fallacy

wandering hoping for the best

S'io credesse che mia risposta fosse
A persona che mai tornasse al mondo,
Questa fiamma staria senza piu scosse.
Ma perciocche giammai di questo fondo
Non torno vivo alcun, s'i'odo il vero,
Senza tema d'infamia ti rispondo

anchcpl4fun 40M/44F

9/26/2005 6:16 am

Some beleive that when you are created there are two halves, you are seperated and sent out into the world. throughout your lifetimes if you are lucky you find that other half which makes you whole = soul mates. very simply put, quick explanation.

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