Boo! Did I Scare Ya?  

travelingintexas 41M
8/21/2006 3:20 pm
Boo! Did I Scare Ya?

OK... SO I am sure you have been missing me, wondering where I went and all the blogs were up in arms wondering why I hadn't posted lately.


No one cared?


Oh well... Honestly, real life has been in the way. Wait a second. The blogs would have been in the way of real life had I have taken the time to write here. Odd huh? I am coming to terms I suppose with the lack of desire I have to write here or for that matter, anywhere.

I am content to live my life now in a way that is everything I ever wanted to be and not talk about it. Doing so has forced me to take a step away from here. I feel disconnected from the wrold when I am here which is 180 degrees from where I have been for the last year. So many people have come and gone, my life is heading in a new direction and I dont get to talk to many of you as much as I would like to. So I feel out of the loop and dont really beleive I have a voice here any longer.

This of course isn't anyones fault, it is just me talking and realizing life has a way of wanting to be lived.

That being said, guess what!

The 22nd is my birthday. Me and that hot little number over on the west coast, Curious, have the same birthday. So we are going out partying and painting the town red together. OK Maybe not but in my mind we are. Last year, I spent the entire day at Starbucks alone. This year, I am not going to be alone.

Anyway, give me your thoughts on what I said up there. Should I just shut it down and come visit occasionaly? This isnt an emotional post for me. Just sort of a "where I am today" sort of thing. I have no anger, not moody, nothing like that. I had great plans to actually start writing again but it just doesnt feel the same (is it my imagination) or I dont have the time to devote to it.


cookiequeen1000 53F

8/21/2006 4:45 pm

Happy Birthday early. Enjoy and celebrate each one you get....they are a blessing and proof you've survived this far. It nice to know you have a life outside AdultFriendFinder and blogging. There's no dress rehersal for life, ya just have to go out and live it.

PlaynAgain 54F

8/21/2006 5:41 pm

If you still enjoy it - do it, even if it's only once in a while. If it isn't fun anymore then don't. I enjoy you well enough to have you on my watched blog list for what that's worth.

btw, early happy birthday

"Attitude is everything. Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle. Live simply, Love generously, Care deeply, Speak kindly. Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, It's about learning to dance in the rain."

digdug41 49M

8/21/2006 5:49 pm

Trav I am glad I came through here to see if you 'd posted anything first off have a happy birthday man glad all is well in your world and write when you want those of us here who have been here wont miss it if it pops up and I feel ya go and live your life I dont think the blogs are goin anywhere just the bloggers

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

rm_ruby48323 71F
18 posts
8/21/2006 8:10 pm

'Course you should keep writing!! (When you want to) Happy Birthday !!! Hope you have many, many more!!!

hornylilgirl78 105F

8/21/2006 10:26 pm

Happy early Birthday!

Oh, I hope you don't shut down. Just come in and post when you feel the need...there will always be those times.


"As kinky as a cheap garden hose!"

redmartinigirl 42F

8/21/2006 10:52 pm

Live your life! Your life is not the blogs... I have found that this site serves it's purpose for a time in the persons life that is "empty" and in need of filling. It sounds like you are "full" now and ready to move on. A true Rest Stop, if you will. I still stop in and read the blogs and reply to various emails but am no longer chatting and spending hours and hours in here. I've made a few true and lasting friends her and life now is good and full. Happy Birthday and may the road rise to meet you...

want2play926 45F

8/22/2006 9:00 am



Second, I love your blog and writing...that I have told you before. It would be great for you to leave it and come back and write when the mood hits you.

Third, you have it wants to be lived. You are doing what you are to be doing. Just stop every now and then and give a few words of your wisdom to us that need it.

rm_corezon 53F
3376 posts
8/22/2006 2:41 pm

Happy Birthday!

Write! Write! Of course you must write! (kidding)

Miss you when you don't write, but few of us blog forever, it seems, having a life to drag us away from here seems to me like a good thing.

I find myself on here less and less; but I finally realized it really doesn't have to be one way or the other; the blogs will be here when we feel the need or desire to write. Maybe when cold and miserable weather comes back more of us will feel more like huddling around the keyboard again.

benibluetwo 47F

8/22/2006 3:54 pm

Well what the fuck am I going to do if I can't come on here and read your blog? It gave my life meaning and purpose...ok...maybe not so much...but I do enjoy your posts and if I have to read them occasionally then that's fine too...quality not quantity Hun.

Have a very happy birthday and remember mine November 13. (And contrary to popular opinion I was born on a thursday NOT a friday.)

Go shake your money maker and live it up.





rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
8/22/2006 5:15 pm

Happy Birthday Brat

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.

willing2tryit42 40M
1141 posts
8/22/2006 9:24 pm

I would love it if you took a break, and then came back! With you here, when I BITCH about coming to Texas for work every spring, at least someone knows what I'm talking about! Great state, close the borders and give I.Q. tests to anyone wanting to work there! Really, you would be missed, so if you go............. BE HAPPY!!!!! At least then we can forgive you!

absolutelynormal 56F
6563 posts
8/23/2006 7:24 am

Happy Birthday, a little bit late, hope it was good Mac

EyeCandy33333 44F
761 posts
8/23/2006 11:21 am


crazygurl2xx 56F

8/23/2006 3:02 pm

ah, yes, at your age time is an issue... go live life! and hope you had a happy birthday.


barbiebunny 36F
5597 posts
8/23/2006 11:45 pm


Its good to be...ME

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11238 posts
8/26/2006 2:09 am

happy belated birthday....

and congratz on the direction thing....

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