A Dance of Desire...  

travelingintexas 41M
2/20/2006 8:27 am
A Dance of Desire...

I love to watch a woman when she sees something she wants. Because I currently have no life, my day begins early with the early news shows, turning into Regis and Kelly and then into the Tyra Banks Show. Typically, after the news, the TV just happens to just be on and I don’t pay much attention to it.

However, this morning as I was picking up my room and putting things away, the Tyra Banks show came on and she had LL Cool J on. Man was she hot. Personally, the older she gets, the better looking I think she gets. Anyway, she is flirty and fun with her eyes glittering as she jokes with her audience. Moving into the show though, when she introduced LL Cool J and he came out, I happened to be watching her eyes and body language.

What had been lose and flirty now turned calculating and feral. Even though she maintained the flirty, laughing tones, the corner of her eyes sharpened when looking at him and her entire body language changed. I love watching the “change.” Even if it is with others thousands of miles away it is still intoxicating to see and to witness.

Did you notice that many of the Valentines Day commercials circled around this theme? An old couple looking at and discussing a younger couple that are flirting with each other in a restaurant is one that comes to mind. What is it that makes us hunger to see or experience love and desire by seeing others in love or seduction?

Men, when out with a woman, do you see the change take place? Do you see the seductive body language, the eyes glinting, the tongue touching the corner of the lips? Do you play off of this or do you miss it? It is part of the dance. Ladies, what body language do you watch for and see?

LadytoPleaseYou 64F
5447 posts
2/20/2006 9:43 am

I watch to see if I have his full attention, or is he scouting the room for 'babes'? Does he try to be close to me, touching or holding hands or does he just meander along beside me? Is he concerned about my well being and safety? Does he show respect? Does he do everything possible to ensure that I am enjoying the sex as much as he is, or is he a slam-blam thank you mame kind of guy? If not?

"Hit the road Jack!! And don't you come back no more no more!"..Ray Charles

PENIS CHARMING....where are you?

Kaliedascope61 41M
4084 posts
2/20/2006 11:26 am

I do play off this, its subtle, and it isn't easy to be sure if your not clear headed, and watching her. You got to focus and really be into the woman before you attempt it!

rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
2/20/2006 1:14 pm

What body language do I look for? That's a tough one because it's very easy to feign interest. I guess I rely on whether the eye contact connection feels real - kind of a gut feeling intuitive thing.

What's my body language when I'm interested? Initially being uncharacteristically reserved and occasionally bolting in the opposite direction, lol. Perhaps I should work on that.

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mangomamiCT 42F

2/20/2006 9:18 pm

Eye contact . Where he has his hands . A smile tells a lot . Because of buisness I have learned to tune into body language well . But there is nothing like the look on a mans face when he sees you naked for the first time .

DTduzDallas 50F

2/21/2006 5:44 am

It's all in the eyes and hands.

kelly402005 52F

2/21/2006 8:16 am

With me, it's eye contact.......

I know this is totally stupid, but a good handshake...
I don't want a "pussy" handshake....
(makes me think u can't handle me)

I don't care if we are gonna fuck later, to me,
It shows confidence and that the man is strong......
if you don't have a "good handshake", u probably won't
get anything from me........

I have a good handshake.......
Do you?

crazygurl2xx 57F

2/21/2006 9:12 am

that is funny as hell!

I can't stand it when i feel like a man is "watching" for my reactions. it's predatory and makes me uncomfortable, reserved and i start looking for the back exit making sure i have my purse with me when i go to the restroom...

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/21/2006 12:46 pm

I look for the revealing of the neck by moving her hair off of her shoulder. I look at where her eyes are looking. I look to see if her legs are crossed away from me or towards me. I look to see if she's leaning forward or back in her seat, etc...

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