proper rules for approaching women at the gym  

torontoguy811 42M
3 posts
5/12/2005 7:38 am

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proper rules for approaching women at the gym


You hear it from the women all the time. " I never meet anyone at the supermarket or Chapter's or the gym" but my female friends tell me they hate when guys at the gym stare at them or try to talk to them when they are all sweaty and trying to workout.

So here is my next question, how do you approach someone you find attractive at the gym?

rm_jayR63 59F
1884 posts
5/12/2005 10:47 am

I don't care if a guy is looking but if he's staring, well that's a little freaky. I catch guys looking all the time.
I wish I could give you a straight forward answer, it would probably help both of us.
I think I am different from most of the women at the gym in that when I am there I look at it as actual training. I have only about an hour to work as hard as I can before I poop out. And I usually am plugged in to tunes.
I don't like having my focus disturbed.
I do appreciate when a guy helps remove 410lbs. from the leg press when I'm done (those are calf raises, I'm not arnold) so there's an opening. Just act as if you were waiting for the bench/leg press/ smith machine, help her take the weights off while you chat and let her see your sparkling personality, then be prepared to use that station.
I only use free weights , so out side of the free weight room you're on your own.


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