What is AFF to me?  

WoundFossaTinge 38M
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6/25/2006 12:18 am

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What is AFF to me?


Ok, this answer to this question is a combination of something I saw elsewhere and a response to a question on a blog that is local to the C-Land area.

For me, AdultFriendFinder is sort of a "game." I put "game" in parentheses bc its not that its a game in the true sense of a game, its that this AdultFriendFinder is completely removed from the rest of my life. It is discreet and not part of my everyday happenings. For me, I describe it as a game, bc I come online, I look around, browse a little bit and go on my way. If I chat w/ some people, sweet, if something more comes, even more sweet, but and this is a big BUT... I really don't plan on incorporating too many if any of the people I meet from here into any other area of my everyday life. If the person becomes someone I really date, maybe then, but not if all you are doing is playing around and having a little fun.

I am not one to judge at all and it would be hypocritical if I did, but online for me is not a real part of my everyday life I partake in with my everyday off-line friends (I used the word real in reference to my friends in my other response, but its not that people here are fake, so real wasn't the proper word), its totally separate. I don't think it is because i am ashamed of being here, just not completely comfortable w/ it. Just my thought.

Any thoughts? Also, whats the deal w/ my last blog entry only getting 2 views? Hopefully this one gets a few more.

sexymusica 30F

6/25/2006 6:35 am

Well, you know there are people that take this site way too personally. maybe that's what thier problem is. they sign on with the idea of being too hooked on meeting someone. I think you have the right idea. If something happens, fine. If it doesnt it doesnt. But there's no need in throwing a temper tantrum about it.


Looking4sex44240 54F

6/27/2006 12:44 pm

I feel the sameway. I have a life when I'm not on here. I do like coming in here and checking out the blogs. It will happen for you trust me.


MWWwantmore 51F

7/13/2006 4:32 pm

I am the same way, mostly this a private part of my life ( for obvious reasons ) But I love reading the blogs daily, they make my day sometimes!



I'll have a cafe, mocha, vodka, valium latte to go please!

Good girls go to heaven.....bad girls go down!!


Fullcontactgirl 36F

10/23/2006 9:18 pm

Unfortunately I have had AdultFriendFinder crossover into my "real" life in some good ways and in some bad ways. Most of my friends are silly, stupid, or curious, so the minute I joined like 5 people I know came with me. But then there's the fact that a kid who idolizes me ...well her sister saw my profile, and then my old boss mailed me throught here. And then there's the weird calls and chance meetings, and i don't even do this that often. So I guess the point I'm trying to make is, "real" gets less real everyday. At least for me! Who knows maybe I'll find my minister, my cousin, and my seventh grade history teacher on here.


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