Slut vs. Whore  

tinuvial 55F
46 posts
7/29/2006 2:56 pm
Slut vs. Whore


I know I'm probably going to kick up a firestorm with this post (if anyone reads it), but I wanted to speak briefly on my feelings towards this topic.

Slut - a woman who freely and openly gives sex for the pure joy of the act itself. Being a slut does not mean that one is indiscriminant. A slut can have standards for "coupling" - be they for a night or for a lifetime. A slut enjoys sex for sex's sake.

Whore - a woman who expects something outside of the sexual union in return for sex. This return could be in the form of money or services rendered, or even dinner in a nice restaurant. If a guy has to spend money on you before you sleep with him, then, in my opinion, you are in this category. The exception to this occurs within a D/s relationship between a female Dominant and her slave/submissive. Any activities outside the sexual realm performed by said submissive become part of the overall act of sex itself, even if it is something as simple as washing the car or cleaning the house.

I am, and always will be a slut. I am not a whore, I do not expect men to "win me over" with expensive gifts. It will not work with me. You cannot shower me with gifts and expect that it gives you the right to nut in my pussy. This is not to say that I don't appreciate gifts freely given, but understand it has no bearing on whether or not you'll ever sleep with me. I made that determination within the first 30 seconds of meeting you. Very few people change my mind from the original impression, and every time someone has, it was a mistake, so I don't allow myself to change my mind any more.

I am a feminist, but my understanding of the interplay between the sexes is not commonly accepted as truth. Most feminists would say that because I cam freely and openly, I allow myself to be exploited. Nothing could be further from the truth. The women who charge for their cameras are the ones that have given up control... choosing money over self-respect. Remember, this is my opinion, everyone has a right to theirs. I can ban a user at any time - I couldn't do that if he were a "paying member" without risking business implications bordering on fraud. I have control, and I always will.

If women stopped using sex as a weapon every time they turned around (i.e., I'm not going to give you head until you clean out the garage), many of the problems that we have today with men as a gender would disappear. Most men would be loyal to their wives if treated like a good slut should. They just want sex, they don't tie it to flowers, candy or cleaning the gutters.

Yes, I am proud to be a slut.

Have a horny day.

432go 70M
6 posts
12/2/2006 10:20 am

No need to tell me to have a horny day! All I need is the slut.


Scoobi_FreeBSD 46M  
75 posts
8/14/2006 6:37 pm

I just feel uncomfortable letting the lady pay for dinner, even if there's no chance of nudity later in the evening. I figured when people talk about guys requiring or even suggesting sex as compensation for the $$$ they shelled out during the date, they were referring to the '50s and earlier. Guys still do that???!!

This topic reminds me of a comedy routine by Patrice O'Neal - may have seen him on a recent cable special. He asks the women in the audience what they would do to keep their men if by some freak accidnet they lost the use of their pussy. A few answers get shouted up to the stage - anal sex, oral sex, hand jobs. Patrice: "Okay now see you just classified yourselves as a bunch of whores, I mean noone said 'learn how to play playstation', 'learn how to play pool', 'bring in a friend who has a pussy'....". His point being that women too often think the area between their legs is what makes them valuable to the opposite sex (guys share the blame for encouraging that attitude in how we treat women sometimes). Anyway it's a great routine; stop & watch if you catch him while flipping channels.

Stay sexy tin!
Anthony


rm_crtyboy4 69M

7/29/2006 6:14 pm

It is the old double standard. Men feel it is ok to screw everything that they can and society turns a blind eye to it. If a woman enjoys the experiences of having sex then she is branded as some type of low life trash. I'll never understand it.


SquirtMeister52 64M  
89 posts
7/29/2006 4:13 pm

Excellent Post!!! I stumbled upon your great treatise on the subject of Opportunistic Dating and little term I heard for the first time on the Today show this morning. I have felt this process and am pleased to see someone addressing it. I’m sure it has been worked over many times before, especially in the Men’s Locker Room.

I would prefer to not use the term Slut for someone especially a wonderful open-minded pleasure seeking woman, however I respect your use of it in this forum.

It does seem there are far to many women out there who must figure that their Pussy is the Golden Triangle and which all men must fall upon their knees and pray and worship that they get a little at her convenience. Perhaps this is also what keeps most men in a place where they never learn how to grow some balls and understand that they too can have the golden shaft. In truth we all put our under-roos on the same way. One leg at a time. I have yet to hear of anyone that can jump up and land inside their pants successfully.

You do have the best outlook I have seen or heard in a long time. The concept of women using sex as a weapon needs to fall if women ever want to slip from under the cloak of subservience. It is this concept of being a Kept Woman that keeps women where they are. A Kept Woman signs a contract allowing the man to do anything he chooses including screw around on her, as long as he leaves the Credit Card empty and ready to charge. Kept Women are the epitome of a “Whore”

So thanks for throwing this out and know that I will support you right and freedom to speak you mind as you like. Bryan


CB_2 51F

7/29/2006 3:53 pm

I'm with you all the way on this.

Blogito ergo sum.


tinuvial replies on 7/29/2006 5:54 pm:
Thanks, I appreciate your support. I honestly expected to get severely flamed for this. Also, if you could point readers here, I do expect to regularly post on lots of items regarding sex and its social implications, as well as some good smut from time o time.

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