Why am I here on this site???  

tinamarie125 44M/44F
47 posts
4/7/2006 7:17 pm

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4/10/2006 6:10 am

Why am I here on this site???

This is a slight rant...
I guess because men are here to fuck...and I just have a hard time believing that women are here just for sex, and sex alone.
My marriage is lacking alot, but good in alot of ways. My husband provides for us, he is sweet and kind. Just has no time for me. yes we have quickies alot. But I guess what I am truly missing the most is the attention of a man. And what has made me realize this is that fucking massage I had last week, no sex during that meeting, but a really good sensual massage. And now fucking has messed it up. Did I think the sex would be slow and sensual, pleasing to my partner AND ME?? Hell yes I thought that. But I thought wrong. Men are men and I guess until you have feelings and a connection with that person, the man is not going to make it slow and sensual and about you. He is trying to cum as quickly as he can so he can do it again and again.
This is so UNFAIR!!!
So I am going back to just seeing my traveling lover...who sends me love notes, tells me what an angel I am...that he adores me. And I will think long and hard over the weekend about if I really need to stay on a f f. which should stand for ask to fuck a female. because that is what men really want.
*sigh* so i am going home to rely on myself for my orgasm tonite. maybe with the money i am spending on this site, i should just buy more vibrators. yeah, i think thats a better investment.


4/8/2006 7:24 am

LOL Tina, Seems allot of married women in your same situation. I know that does not help, but Don't give up. Please forgive this mans point of view on the subject. I to am married and find myself looking for that missing something. Now I personally am not after the quick pop and go. I much prefer to take things slow, lots of playing, kissing mutual pleasuring and exploring!!, BUT Time is not always plentiful. So just a thought. When you are interviewing potential lovers ask them about there preferences. Do they like kissing, massaging, foreplay, oral (giving)things that you like to receive. Remember this is a two way street. You don't mind giving, But you got to get yours TOO. And make sure you both have ada quite time for all the playing!!
I hope you find what you need!!

Play hard, play safe and play often!!!{=}

lookin4sum61 55M
21 posts
4/8/2006 10:17 am

Tina..........don't leave us sweetie.......I love reading your blogs.........I miss you!

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