I'm relaxed  

timswoman06 51F
4 posts
5/30/2006 1:15 pm
I'm relaxed

I spent the morning hanging out at the pool and enjoying the second day of real sun here in NE Ohio. It has been so long since I did anything with out my children, and with out feeling guilty that my husband is hard at work. Maybe that means I am finally getting ok. Affairs are heartbreaking, yet here I am looking for validation. I'm not sure if this is the letting go of the hurt process or the letting go of my marriage process. I guess only time will tell.

rm_gerson42 52M
2419 posts
5/30/2006 2:28 pm

Those are hard feelings you are dealing with. Although, sometimes it is ok to take time out for yourself in my opinion. Not sure about finding the validation here, sometimes I feel that comes from within. But positive you will find people with similarly complicated situations.

playtime44uandi 52M
6545 posts
5/30/2006 5:32 pm

In my opinion poeple need a certain amount of time to themselves. & everyone has there oun way of finding it.
As for what prosses your in, only you can decide. Just dont rush it. Take your time & listen to your feelings. & we'll all be there if you need someone to talk to.
Welcome to the blogs!

~We'll Leave The Light On~

HotHorny1221 48M

5/31/2006 5:56 pm

Deep thoughts and honestly spoken ! I have an ex in England who is currently in the throws of an affair that she feels guilty about - but scratch the surface and the marraige she is in is all but a shame... peer pressure - society - who knows what it is that makes us feel guilty for sometimes finally doing something good for just ourselves ? I don't know what the answer is - but be true to yourself and you shouldn't go too far wrong. It's when you make decisions because of others (children and family) that things can get out of kilter

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