see ya later gators  

tigger_girl71 45F
88 posts
1/17/2006 1:58 pm

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see ya later gators

I will write while I try to figure out a title.

I will say that I shed a tear or two for those affected by the news of the "death" of Enigma. Then it comes to pass that it was an untruth.
I decided not to blog that day and as I read the countless posts on the hoax, I started realizing that it was unfair and how do you believe ANYTHING on the internet.
The group of fellow bloggers that I follow, I have come to trust in a sense. Yet, who knows what is true?
I am trying to make my life better. I am trying to fix issues with me, issues in my marriage, and focus on my family-basically I have my own shit to deal with without haiving to shed a tear and be sad about some freaking selfish asshole in blogland.
Don't get me wrong, I appreciate your concern for me, but I am disillusioned, I feel played and (a Bulge term) FFS I have too much of my own drama out in the real world to worry anymore about it.
I hope I can I come back for those special friends I have made here, but for now, I need to focus on my life.

im_your_man77 39M
961 posts
1/17/2006 4:00 pm

I can't say that I've followed your blog on a regular basis but I see no reason why you should stop blogging or talking to people you consider friends because of one selfish idiot. If this is something you enjoy, continue doing it, don't allow 1 person so much power when they clearly are not worth that power.
You are correct when you say we all have our own dramas to deal with and that should always take priority in our lifes. Personally I am always cynical when people choose to share their troubles online, not because of the events the other day, just from previous experiences. I've had my own hard times in my life and have deliberately chosen not to share those events with people I don't really know. Whereas I've seen many times where people have aired their hard times and then ultimately finding out that they were lying through their teeth. Don't get me wrong sometimes people are genuine and do need a shoulder to cry on but because of other selfish idiots its not always easy to see who is being real.
That said this place is here to be enjoyed. If you can find that enjoyment, stay.

MillsShipsGayly 51M

1/18/2006 5:42 am

I referenced this blog in mine just so you know
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elysianpleasure 47M

1/18/2006 6:37 am

I hear you!!!! I know how it feels to be dupped and played. And I have closed off many times to wonderful things because I didn't want to be played. But don't let a few ass holes spoil your faith in all. It gets pretty lonley in the world if you let it. You have a wonderful blog. I too have my own "shit" to deal with... and I find the releasing of writing what I could not possibly discuss with those who know me a tremendous outlet. I also find reading and knowing others out there have "shit" as well to be helpful... none of us really want to be alone.

rm_luke69iner 48M
3275 posts
1/19/2006 5:25 pm

You, your marriage, and your family ... Sounds like the important stuff in life ... Take time for the important stuff

Silly Bloggy World will be here any time you feel like visiting ... We'll be happy to see you anytime if you stop back by ... I think your friends here would rather you focused on your outside life as much as you need to

Best wishes


S'io credesse che mia risposta fosse
A persona che mai tornasse al mondo,
Questa fiamma staria senza piu scosse.
Ma perciocche giammai di questo fondo
Non torno vivo alcun, s'i'odo il vero,
Senza tema d'infamia ti rispondo

TTigerAtty 62M

1/20/2006 2:56 pm



non illigitimae carborundum

Girl, I hope you do come back! I, myself, have been gone for 21 days! Long story!

norprin5 55M

2/1/2006 6:30 pm

speaking for myself, tigger, i know i've become a little more cynical and hardened about this whole 'community'...and yet, i
know at least 2 of them are real, and they know more

and frankly, if anybody is not real, i don't want to know anymore

King Nor XVIII

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