Am I wrong?  

thr3sum 33M/F
94 posts
9/5/2005 1:57 pm

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Am I wrong?

So i have this friend that just got out of prison, he was in there for drugs. Prop 36. Any how we were really close before he went away and a lot has changed in my life since. I got married for one. People used to think we were an item. Now no offense to him but friendship was as close as i would get
1. he used and shared needles.
2. he would "do" things to get drugs.
3. i didn't really trust that he wouldn't steal from me.

So we were just friends, I gave him rides and we would drink together and sneak into concerts, i used to be into graffitti and we would paint together, under the bridge. You know trouble. I was fortunate enough to know better when it came down to drugs.

He had made a list of the things he wanted to do when he got out. number one was hang out with MISO. the thing is that my life is so different and I don't do a lot of the things we used to do. The other thing is that as soon as he got out he went and had sex with this female that i cannot stand. We've come pretty close to throwing blows a few times (I hate jail so I don't fight anymore) and i know that she'll find her way around if we try to hang out. She would do it just to piss me off. She is a awful person, a thief and a liar. Even my hippy sister hates her. She starts shit with everyone around town because her cousin is this huge samoan chick that'll crack a skull or two.

So the question is do I let go of the friendship because of the changes, and her; or do I try to maintain it putting myself into a shitty situation?

I would really apreciate any feed-back here....

Take it sleazy-

thr3sum 33M/F
117 posts
9/5/2005 2:59 pm

thank you very much.... i think you're right.

toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
9/5/2005 3:11 pm

You say you didn't really trust him, and were afraid he might even steal from you; in my mind that 's not friendship.
Simply and calmly explain to him that your lifestyles are not compatible. You seem like a very sensitive person.

rm_luke69iner 48M
3275 posts
9/5/2005 6:04 pm

the nature of life is that friendships wax and wan for many different reasons

it is usually impossible to remain in contact with everyone you have called a friend at one time or another

very few friends are kept close for a lifetime

this will be a difficult friendship to maintain. if you want to maintain this friend then be honest with him and tell him you will only agree to be around him when this other girl absolutely won't be around. if he is a true friend he will understand

best wishes


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bigred4499 60M
87 posts
9/5/2005 7:50 pm

Cut your losses an move on

CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
9/6/2005 12:08 am

He went straight to the lady that you can't stand, why ? you said she was a thief and a liar, and your hippie sister hates her. You and this other guy are on completly diffrent roads now, stay where you are, and continue moving forward.


thr3sum 33M/F
117 posts
9/6/2005 10:52 am

thanks guys... I know what is right. It's just hard to let go.

take it sleazy-

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