Wondering if I should spend the money to be a member of this site.  

thom5055 61M
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8/13/2005 10:16 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Wondering if I should spend the money to be a member of this site.


Hi One and All,

Haven't spent a dime on this site yet, and am just getting my profile ready. Am wondering if it is worth spending anything on it - have looked around at a few of the local groups (St. Louis area), and seems like the only active people are men. Apparently outnumbered again.

One local group is advertizing a party several miles south of here on 8/20, but again, it appears that of the people who said that they will be attending, guys will greatly outnumber the women. Also, I probably will not be able to get there simply because my damn car is broke, but that is a whole 'nother story.

Tried an internet dating site or two, but have not been satisfied with them at all. Seems like all the women are out basically to have a good time at the guys expense or are too picky as to what they want for a relationship of any nature. Gee, maybe all I have to do is win the lottery, then perhaps. . . .

Like all the guys on here, I do want to get laid, perhaps fulfill a fantasy or two, maybe even fulfill a lady's fantasy as well. Wondering if I'll get any response from my profile, then wonder if "we" choose to meet, will we end up in bed together for some mutually satisfying fun.

For right now, I think that I'll wait until I get a response or two from here before I become a full member. Once an interested lady who is considering meeting with me, basically to make sure I am not grossly overweight and an ax murderer, and expresses not only an interest but a desire in having sex right away, I'll immediately join. In fact, if she wants, I'll be more than happy to describe our adventure on this blog, or not.

Am curious what experiences other guys here in the St. Louis area have had with this site. Have you been successful, or just wasted your money?

Thanks to all who have read this, and even more gratitude goes to those who choose to respond.

lifeisablast333 54M

8/13/2005 11:19 pm

spending the money could pay off, not as many limits, go gold, just like in the real world....you get what you pay for.....it has been worth the money we spend on it.....we have meet friends...and lovers.. on this site...you could also......


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