BBW's  

thom5055 61M
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8/17/2005 3:19 pm

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BBW's


This comment is about the definition of BBW's (Big Beautiful Women), and I am looking for comments about the subject, and am particularly interested in those from ladies who consider themselves to be BBW's.

To me, in essence, BBW means FAT. In other words, if a lady's waist is larger than her bust, and her groin sags to mid-thigh, and she is obviously 200 pounds or more overweight, I consider her to be a BBW, and am not attracted to her at all. In fact, I've briefly looked at a porn site or two that appears to use this same definition. Yes, I realize that this probably means that I am a shallow person in that I cannot overlook appearance in this matter, but that is the way that it is.

Having said that, there are those who would be considered to be large women whom I consider to be very attractive and sexy. I think that what the difference is is that these women are proportionate in their dimensions, i.e. they look like women and not . . . . .

Is my definition of BBW wrong? If so, how can I politely make it known that I am not interested in fat women?

Think I upset a member unintentionally last night because of my ad. In it I state that I am not interested in BBW's. Now this member is in southern MO, and did look at my ad (this minute it is offline as I revised it somewhat, but it should be back up soon). To this particular member I abjectly and completely apologize. In her blog which I read almost completely through, she does have a few photos that I can see even though I'm still not a paid member (that will happen next Friday, the 26th, I think). Anyhow, this lady is not what I call a BBW by any means - yes she is a larger woman than what Hollywood and the mass media considers to be lovely, but she is very attractive. Without using names, I again sincerely apologize to this lady.

CreoleKittie 46F

8/17/2005 4:21 pm

~smiles~
Hmmmmm...a strong question you pose there...i've always wondered if i'm a BBW...i'm big boned (like Garfield..~grins~) i am proportionate in all the right places...and believe it or not, i'm 220...
Men seem to have no problem at all with my body...in fact many men want me because of my size and proportions....
Am i a BBW? I dont' consider myself to be labeled as such...i am a woman...and i am beautiful....plain and simple...


hotdarter 47F
1520 posts
8/17/2005 4:46 pm

I consider myself to be a BBW, since by the standards set forth by most Health publications I am morbidly obese. Take a look at my profile pics though and you will see a shapely bust and smooth running torso...I do have large thighs and a big stomach. Hey I am 5'2" and 260lbs. The pounds have to go somehere. My tush is big too.

Periodically I join WW to take some weight off, but drop out once I get to the 210 range. I like my curvyness and so do the men I have met. I have even had one woman invite for a get together. I stay in relatively decent shape so I can keep up.

The thing is, I like myself. That is what makes me most attractive.


CharlieOnTheMTA_ 47F

10/16/2005 4:26 pm

you're harsh in your word choice. to each their own. am i a bbw? not really, but i'm more of a bbw than not.... you have to THINK for yourself and DECIDE. why classify so much? this is repeated throughout your posts....


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