Blow Job Timing  

thetigress68 48F
63 posts
3/10/2006 9:21 pm

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5/13/2006 7:48 am

Blow Job Timing


This may sound like a ridiculous question, but do any of you other ladies (and some men) out there ever find that it seems to take some men an inordinate amount of time to cum (say more than 30 minutes) during a blow job, but the minute you have intercouse they pop their cork in a few minutes? I enjoy giving oral, but after 30 minutes and my jaw aching, it's time to let it go. Sometimes it almost seems to me like they try to hold out to see how long they can take. LOL

yesman1500 56M
2 posts
3/10/2006 9:57 pm

Yeah good question, I love getting blow jobs but they seem to take a lot longer than intercourse. Then again it takes a lot LESS time when having a doggie than any other position, so maybe it's in the angle of the dangle...


rm_GUARGUM77 39M
1 post
3/10/2006 10:12 pm

it all depends on technique for me, some girls i'm done in a few minutes, others, it takes a while, one girl i knew that could get me off quickly, used to barely scrape her teath over my head as the blowjob went further along, that usually got me a lot closer and ended up putting me over the edge


dickhead4u2 40M
17 posts
3/14/2006 7:23 pm

being comfortable definately helps but with your sexy eyes wouldnt take long for me


CrimsonPiston2 49M

3/17/2006 6:19 pm

Hey Tigress,

count me among those who has never cum from oral. Not sure why. Believe me it is not intentional! There have been some valiant efforts, but ultimately couldn't finish the job. Still hopeful that it can happen some day soon!


NEGuy444 54M
1 post
3/20/2006 8:05 am

Tigress, It takes me a lot longer than intercourse... Use a lot of hand action helps, Also try sticking a finger up his rear, that usually does it for me


will2travel 46M
2 posts
3/21/2006 6:56 pm

Great post - yeah I usually take longer to cum via oral, but the benefit of the delay is that when I do pop, its is many times more intense than cumming in a pussy. Its not just the delay, it the difference in the sensation between pussy and mouth. Its almost the same feeling as when you fuck 2 or 3 times in a few hours - the last cum in that series is always the most intense, hardest to reach, but most mind blowingly satisfying.

I can relate to the lockjaw after a half hour or so, but accentuating the slurping noises and liberal doses of saliva dripping over the cock and out of your mouth will probably speed up the process - always works for me!

xo
W.


rm_cumwmeplz2 49M
28 posts
3/21/2006 10:12 pm

I do take long with both depending on the position. But if shes good at giving head you better believe I'll burst.


curvymeli 39F

3/22/2006 8:13 am

I know for some men it does take them longer, but it is definitely frustrating on my part to be working so hard and not get the prize!! Honestly, when I hear that a man says he can't cum from oral I have been known to take it as a type of challenge...and only once have I been thwarted in my efforts (mostly due to copious amounts of beer consumed the veening before, I hope).
I think every man can get there orally but there is a lot of mental blockage to it: will she swallow, the rhythm's gone wrong, is my cock big enough and does it taste good...etc, just as when women are getting head.


pantyraider336 38M

3/23/2006 10:43 pm

blow jobs do take longer, but if she really knows how to perform her job it won't take long.


sexycouple5572 42M/42F
4 posts
3/24/2006 12:06 pm

Depends on the technique. Definitely try a different approach, I don't know how anyone could keep going for a half hour.


rm_MATT7BATT 47M
3 posts
3/30/2006 10:18 am

I would admit it would the factor of how the face looks and if the suction is there, I have cum on many occassions after receiving a blowj$b, but I will agree you have the most perfect face for giving oral, and would guess your body would be the same, though my only downfall is when a woman sucks my testicles I would explode all over the place!


rm_gh00st_0000 51M
1 post
4/4/2006 1:30 pm

to be honest I haven't had a lot of blowjobs but how fast I cum depends on the girl giving it to me. I've had one make me explode in a few minutes and I was still hard...have had others that took a long time and never came. I would love to lick until my jaw hurt...it's important that partners enjoy each other....gh00st_0000 at yahoo.com


pandoo5 59M
398 posts
4/5/2006 11:59 am

Nothing is ridiculous question is curiosity and you want to know, by asking you are not judging any body, it should not take 30min try something else or play with balls at same time.


rands4play 43M/37F
2 posts
4/10/2006 1:24 pm

I agree there can be numerous variables that contribute to "fending off" a climax. Most times for myself , it can depend greatly on my mood. What I am "looking for" and how my mind set is will change my staying powers. Other things could be a tooth graze that was unexpected and may not be something (he) is aroused by and a fight or flight response happens; dropping his libido temporarily. (like getting shocked by unexpected interruptions will make a guy drop quick. Another could be a guy is so caught up in HOW you are doing this gracious thing and how well you are doing it, that, although it feels incredible, His mind is focused on your technique that holding off climax is easier. Finally, HE could just be very playful and is thinking of how to get you in as many positions as possible.....R


relationsseeker 35M/32F

4/17/2006 6:14 pm

yeah, it depends on the woman....I've haven't had as much great success with other women as I have with my fiance, who absolutely makes me explode!!! However, I do like to watch her and enjoy it, so it takes me sometime to cum, but with her technique I am a guranteed cum every time....If you're ever interested in a swinging type meeting with myself and my fiance, let us know Tigress....wed love to meet you guys and share some fun!!!


rm_tucanchu4 51M
3 posts
5/9/2006 12:19 am

There's something about a good blow job. I can cum in less than 5 minutes most every time, yet I can and usually do last for 35 minutes to 2 hours during intercourse. The reason is I always know what my partner wants before we start an activity. I've never known anyone who wants to work her jaw muscles so long she can't open her mouth for days. Do you ask for directions while you suck, it may help to know what he thinks feels best.


goodasIoncewas4u 68M
1 post
5/22/2006 3:11 pm

Yes it does seem to take a lot longer to cum that way I have no idea why maybe it just feels better in the pussy,or maybe we just need more practice orally.Any takers.


hardnsxy 41M  
2 posts
5/27/2006 1:50 pm

It usually takes me longer to cum from oral sex too. Although, some women were able to get me off in a few short minutes.
Not sure the difference... Most of the reasons here seem reasonable. I suppose it depeends on the guy.
Anyone care to experiment????


Two2explore343 50M/46F

6/30/2006 3:14 pm

It`s just some gay`s have had Girls in the past that didn`t like it so we get numb to it. Like it but not to finsh.


jsthfw49 67M
6 posts
7/6/2006 11:57 am

Well it looks like its the technique and the couple - my experience like the others is varried - I feel sex - and oral sex is 99% mental so it is the mood and like others have written - what gets them turned on - sounds - getting the man very wet - thats a turn on for me, mine isnt how much of me a woman can take but using her hand and her lips and tongue are the key and its all in the head (both lol) - one way for you to find out is to see how the guy like to be jerked off that will tell you where it feels the best for him and will help guide you in whay he likes - maybe the couple could do it togeahter and learn or just ask what your partner likes - what turns them on! And by all means take a break if its not cumming the way you want but then laying there togeather 69-ing each other for a long time would be soooooooooooooooooooo nice in itself or a prelude to things to cumm


4everhornie 59M/59F

8/4/2006 8:34 pm

I can be sucked for hours or fuck for hours and not cum until I get a good handjob...weird,huh?


rm_shadowguy36 48M

8/8/2006 8:39 am

tigress im one of those guys that takes a long time to cum orally i can and have cum orally but usually i dont sometimes it bercause just as i get to that point my gf or whoever will change the way they are sucking or else i get scraped by teeth, i know it isnt intentional and i appreciate when someone tries to keep it interesting by changing up , but if you see the guy is really turned on by what yu are doing dont change what you are doing lol that causes him to lose sensationa nd start over ..i have even had it go numb on me a few times from oral wheer i couldnt cum orally or thru intercoarse i dont know if that has happened to other s but thats my experience..there have been times that a woman has gooten me to cum within a few minutes orally but that is few and far between


rm_Fireman234u2 52M
1 post
8/10/2006 11:02 am

The sensation is totally different. When I get head I like my woman to stroke my cock as well as suck it. That helps me cum faster. It also seems a little more removed or remote sometimes that doesn't help. Keep the man enticed. Keep eye contact and stay hot and heavy.


AulaeAgonyHobby 65M
7 posts
8/11/2006 7:12 pm

I had to chuckle wneh I read this. When a woman gives me a great BJ as a wonderful warm up for fucking, it sometimes takes me a very long time to cum via pussy. After having that warm mouth sucking me hard and working her tonguearound my cock, the pussy proivides a little less friction. No matter. I love long powerful fucking. It can work both ways.


rm_pitchfork37 55M
1 post
8/24/2006 9:38 am

i've noticed a huge difference in the women who have had their faces attached to my dick when we are both into the moment, and those who are just getting face-fucked, for lack of a better, albeit less romantic term...the women who have given me oral sex as a part of our sexual encounter usually wait no longer for me to cum than i do for the to cum when i'm down on them


rm_horny81222 35M

8/29/2006 3:57 pm

Honestly, I have never been able to cum from getting a blow job, or someone jerking me off.


mytefine58 71M

8/31/2006 2:40 pm

I think most guys just hold back to enjoy the sights and sounds and to simply make it last as long as possible because we only get oral sex every so often. ( Every night would be the norm for most guys ) but if we get Oral once a month we're thankful! Maybe I'm wrong, but thats how I see it.


outdoorman94 47M

9/8/2006 9:24 am

Well not thinking i would wanna hold out!


soldierboy12061 49M
44 posts
9/13/2006 11:01 am

I seem to last for a long time when getting a BJ, but I pop really fast after I slip inside of her, especially with my ex. Now that I use protection for sex, I can last A LOT LONGER!

I think it has to do with the different feeling inside a women's pussy vs a BJ.


Hottie69692007 32M

9/27/2006 1:49 pm

I have to admit that sometimes I do try to hold out... But only if the girl is very, very good at it... In that case, I want to savor it as long as possible.


Feedme1962 54M/46F
12 posts
10/4/2006 4:36 pm

I will admit, I have met only three woman in my life who have gotten me off with a Blow Job (This is NOT a challange statment) in my opinion it depends on the womans abilities and the mans mental state. the more erotic and sensual a woman is the easier it is for me to orgasm. I had one woman push her finger in and I came emidiatly but this does not always the case. The HEAT of the moment cane make a differance also. Their are so many factors involved, you just cant name one .........


BONDS23 53M
97 posts
10/5/2006 11:49 am

Hi Tigeress

It all depends on the mood...and the lady.....it can take a reall long time or it can be quick....


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