NC....HERE I COME!!!  

thencshell 46F
18 posts
5/1/2006 12:13 am

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5/22/2008 1:52 pm


YEAH!! I am leaving for NC in approximately 3 hours....I am so excited! You know I read some of the posts (all 2 of them) that you guys gave me on the misbehaved woman and the bedroom and parents. Well here is the thing - I am wild in the bedroom and love sexy lingerie... I also love to dress up and have great dinners and be intellectually stimulated. I am very intense at times and love to be challenged on all levels. I can not stand to only have animal magnetism as you can get that anywhere. The conversations, the little looks that you knowingly share, the comments that only the two of you knwo about is the thing I love and am looking for.

I have to admit - I am not relationship friendly. You have to keep me stimulated both in and out of the bedroom to keep my attention or else I have relationship ADD......which means you bore me I add another relationship to my life to make up for the lack. I am very diverse with my interest - from classic cars - hot rods - luxury cars - and well exotic ones....put me in a topless sports car with great handling, loud music and hold on....AND...look out for cops cause chances are I will be speeding.....

Sexy is an attitude...I am sexy and I know it! I like sexy things and love feeling sexy and my lover will make sure I have what it takes to feel that way! Lingerie (Vic Secret is my favorite place in the whole world) and they will be greatly rewarded. And I guess that brings me to love women who are sensual and sexy help them men.....give them the tools they need to feel that them up and create that sexual creature you want ...tell her how beautiful she is - how much she turns you on and how into her you are....if she is your wife and you are struggling with this then there are 6 words - one phrase you need to knwo.....FAKE IT TIL YOU MAKE IT!!! It's a two way street guys and gals make the other feel needed wanted and sexy and they will eat out of your hands!!!

uBsatisfied1000 50M  
15 posts
5/1/2006 5:08 am

Here is my experience in that department. I met her and she was fun in and out of the bedroom. She was proper around the parents and started off wild in the sex department. Then she got comfortable in the relationship. When that happened she stopped trying. Then she looked for other places to have her fun.
I would never say it was only her fault. After a while I stopped trying. I got angry and that caused arguments. It was the snowball effect. The farther it went the worse it got.
I guess the moral is don't let it get comfortable. When you find yourself going through the motions, change the motions. Make something happen and keep it interesting.

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11238 posts
5/2/2006 12:00 am

hope you'll have a gud time....

rm_michdad40 52M

5/2/2006 5:40 pm

NC, You are so right, many dont get the fact that sexy is not a look but an attitude. Beyond the look there are the eyes, the movments, the whispers. So many different things combined. And as for keeping the interest, well that is always needed, be it a soft knowing touch while out, or mybe a whisper to let you know how good your looking. It is always so much fun ot give those very subtle teases while out in public, which in turn makes those great big smiles break out that make others wonder why.....And leaves me smiling even more knowing how to tease and then please when the time comes . All comes with taking time exploring each other and finding exactly what and where ot do those things

raspberrynips 47F
2 posts
9/25/2007 10:54 pm

I just wonder if NC is not relationship friendly because of a bad experience. If so, I think that she should learn from it and move on. Anyway, I don't know the girl and this is just an observation that I've made, which could be something that is totally in the wrong direction.

cablehuss28 45M
7 posts
5/28/2008 12:34 pm

I hope you read these comments shell. I really want to talk to you. I am a standard member like you. You can reach me at yoo hoo(or whatever) using my name on here.

jokerdad 54M
26 posts
6/7/2008 9:55 pm

You are the first I have seen use the phrase about relationships being Two Way Streets.I have been saying that for the better part of 15 yrs or more.I have always felt that you must be willing to give more than you receive.But when you do receive,you receive in more than you expect you would.
I feel that is why there are so many DIVORCES,people stop going down those two-way streets and start going down the one-way.I am divorced but I gave it my all to make things work been the ex and myself,but to no avail,it did not work in my favor except for getting custody of my child.

kingstree45 54M/52F

9/22/2008 1:49 pm

reading thru the tenor of your blogs, it appears as if someone has caused you significant pain from a prior relationship--while it's fun to have fuck-buddies and while the enticement is not simply raw animalistic grinding away, you cannot heal your pain by indiscriminate sex simply for the sake of it--have fun but be careful
robin & carolyb

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