Lady Play!  

tgrladynry69 40M/47F
8 posts
3/3/2006 10:57 pm

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4/27/2006 11:20 pm

Lady Play!

Got a question, a big one. What is the HUGE deal with Bi-lady only time? We've been getting a growing number of emails from couples that have a Bi-female half of the relationship. Not a problem until we get a follow up email saying they only want to meet the female half of us after we reply back.

These arent new couples to the lifestyle, nor does it say anywhere in our profile that my lady is overtly Bi and wants to play alone with another woman while her husband just sits and watches. They then drop us like a hot rock if we say we'd rather ALL play. We get that just as much as we get emails from single guys.

We're curious to know the reasons behind this, it doesnt make too much sense to us. The concept is like waving a steak in front of a couple of Rottweilers. You can tease those dogs, but you'll piss them off eventually if you dont feed them that steak. We'd both like to play and we'd want everyone involved in the fun. Watching two or more women getting tangled up in each other is fun, dont get me wrong, but the guys can watch a porno of that and jerk off all the time if we wanted.

The bi relationship between the ladies can definitely be incorporated into the group event, but turning down a couple or asking for just the female (we feel) is an insult to the lifestyle overall. After all ladies, how would you feel if a couple directly asked only for the man and not you? Insulted? Ugly? Not worth the other couple's time? Jealous? It's not that I feel this way, I've gotten my share of attractive women who are fun in bed, but I can easily see someone else feeling that way. (We have a lifestyle couple we see where the female is straight, it's even harder for them to get a date, she's NOT Bi, or even Bi-curious.)

It's more of a matter for us that we dont have a fuck first, ask questions later relationship. Most couples dont. We have to know with who, where and when, IF we play separately. Those same couples emailing us saying they want only her seem to have a lack of understanding on that issue as well. Same answer that we give to the single guys, we come as a package. Dont ask for her alone, but let her contact you if she wants.

There are four people involved, not just three. Maybe a different approach is needed, or at least someone could enlighten us with why some couples might do this. If it's such a big requirement in your lifestyle activity to have a bi-female alone with you, I'd recommend trying the single bi-female route and not risk offending the other couples out there that you would exclude just based off of that one issue. They might have been a couple who really connected with the both of you and you'll be missing out on some red hot sex.

It's a damn shame to miss out on good sex with being given the blessing of this lifestyle. We'd love to hear your thoughts! Take care. Ryan and Treva

MONA_14 29F

3/4/2006 12:18 pm

you are invited to be our Friends

rm_CrazyRRMC 51M
12 posts
3/8/2006 9:29 pm

Damn you look beautiful lets go for a ride on my HARLEY.

rm_Hot_Tits1982 41M/34F

3/24/2006 12:18 am

I agreee with evreything you said. If you just want to meet the woman of a couple you could be missing out on a lot, expecailly with tgrladynry, they are both wonderful people and im glad to have meet both of them. I think if you want a single woman you should be contacting single woman not couples, most couples will only play as a couple. And for the single guy emails we get those to. And whats with the guy with the harley, are you retarted? Did you even read the blog? Or even the profile? It clearly says no single men. And if its becasue you cant read you have no busness being on here. And chicks arnt going to want to meet you cause you have a harley.

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