well shit is happening  

texascowboy76801 40M
12 posts
12/15/2005 9:39 pm

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well shit is happening

well today on this day my wonderful ex wife came over she was pretty nice at first asking me how i was i told her i am fine i havent seen her in three years she looked alot better than usual so she asked me how our kids were i told her she can see them if she wants to so she came in and played with our kids like we were together again i went and made her some tea she was very nice for some reason but i noticed she had papers in her hand i asked her what those papers were she said they are for me so i read them they are court hearing papers over custody of our children our children the same children she ran out on three yearsago when keely was born why she left i didnt ask her and francly i didnt care for some reason she wanted custody of my children mine as in i raised since they were babies with out her and she had the balls to come up today and be very sweet to me and then hand me fucking custody hearing papers so i tried to contain the anger i had in me i told her fine i will go but i dont think we should fight for the kids since well to be honest they are mine possesion is 9/10 the law what i am worried about is the other1/10 that she has a chance see i dont want to loose my kids they are all i got that makes my life worth anything if i lost them god knows what would happen hopefully i dont loose them but i have a bad feeling like i was stabbed in the gut and this wrenching paiin inside me makes me think i am going to loose those who are important in my life my two beautiful children whom i would give my life for if they were suffering i dont know to much on custody between two parents but i do know most of the time the mother gets them since she is the mother and i am just the father the one who changed there diapers made them well when they got ill i love them to pieces they are my life so what i am trying to decide here is can i live without them do i have a chance of them being mine and only mine and she who abandoned us will have no right to come over and get the kids i raised she has our lawyer a guy i trusted with all my legal battles he is very good but she has him now and i am afraid since me and her are at a cuerel he is as you know siding with her my ex and i have to find another lawyer but i havent the money to afford a lawyer i could represent myself which will show pitty to me and i will have a great chance i just hope they dont put the kids on the stands or anything i think the kids should be far away from this as possible then i wonder if she does win how the kids would fell about that i meen they really dont know her to well but she is the mother what should i do i am out of options i am afraid for the kids well being and my own

texascowboy76801 40M
8 posts
12/16/2005 1:56 am

well great point i am glad you feel that way i am happy alot of people out there agree with me and you farm girl i think you are a great person and probably nice and all that yes the judge might choose her which i fear more than death right now she wants them back to herself cause she said that she left an abusive husband i was never abusive to her what i think is she wants to get my children who i have been with since they were born to make it look like i am a bad father and so she could get child support off my own kids pretty chicken shit huh well the hearing is soon i have tryed to get a good lawyer but none areas good as my old one so i am representing myself i hope i win i cant loose them they are my world i thank you for feeling the same way i do and good luck farm girl

wildestwish 62F

12/16/2005 4:01 pm

Baby you have to be patient and not lose your cool. The judge will look at what has transpired over the past 3 years and make a decision based on what is in the childrens best interest. Your job is to be there for the kids and let them know that no matter what happens you are their Daddy and you love them and will always be there for them no matter what. God never gives up more than we can handle and even though there are times we feel like our lives are over something happens to show us we arent alone and we are loved. Thanks for your honesty and friendship. My heart goes with you as you travel this difficult road. You are a great guy and just being true to yourself will bring you many rewards in life. Wishy luvs ya ( as well as lust ya hehe)

Hugs N Licks,


pickthisguy11 36M
79 posts
12/17/2005 11:09 pm

Unfortunately the law usually sides with the mother, even is she doesn't deserve them. I wish you luck in your court battle. While representing yourself may sound like a good idea, I strongly suggest you get a lawyer. Even if you don't find one as good as your last laywer, you really should have one. I know they are expensive but do what you can. It will probably cost you an arm and a leg, but your kids are worth it. Good luck.

rm_sxyytxnurse 50F
2 posts
7/15/2006 9:31 am

so what happened with kids?

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