You've got to be kidding me  

teaser2009 34F
149 posts
6/4/2006 10:46 pm

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6/21/2006 1:41 am

You've got to be kidding me

So the ben that has been chatting on here has stuck his foot in his mouth. My profile clearly states "Extra Padding"...aka-i'm totally not a skinny girl. I have curves, i have rolls, i have meat on my bones. Fuck you if you don't like it. What i don't like is someone who doesn't like someone suddenly because they see a picture and recognizes you from another dating site where they had flipped through and saw you and thought they were interested. Awesome. I know i'm fat guys. Really, I do. Thanks for reminding me. Thanks also for letting me show you that i'm more intelligent then you had orginally thought. This just makes me angry because i'm more then my weight. And weight is such a changeable thing!!! Look at my personality!! Look inside!

I want to scream sometimes because i know the people who have taken the time to get to know me love me. I know the people who've i've gotten to know i adore too...because i've learned something from them all, and it never depended on their weight or pants size.

I was angrier early about this, but now i realized, it isn't a big deal. I have jack and tim and all the nurses and my girls. Fuck all of you who can't looks past some weight (which i carry well) to see that most women with extra padding have something beautiful inside of them (well, at least I do)

HappyCouple5248 67M/64F

6/4/2006 11:18 pm

The size of your heart is more important than the size of your dress.

MzLea 41F
1 post
6/8/2006 8:25 pm

Teaser...Teaser...Teaser...Right now i'm giving you a high-five...For saying "Fuck-em"! Honey I got a secret for you...there are PLENTY of men that LOVE "Extra Padding"! And do me a favor, stop using the word "fat" that word to describe animals, private parts, and baby cheeks! love you!... Be "Thick", "Big-n-Tasty", "PHAT = Pretty Healthy and Tempting".

STCMOguy4fun 36M

6/10/2006 1:42 am

Holy Crap. You know guys are assholes...(excuse me language) But you know what, MzLea is right, you should not be so hard on yourself, & in fact just be yourself. Yeah, I realize it sounds like everyone tryin to be a shrink but you know what it is only because you do not deserve that. Everyone is on here for one reason or another, some people are shallow & many care about how people feel. So just because someone else has one way of looking at things it does not mean that everyone has that thought toward it. You seem like a wonderful person & it does not matter what everyone else thinks. You are a beautiful pperson & you should never doubt that. Well I am off of here. Take care & be well.

Later Dayz

Khakimon 44M
62 posts
8/19/2006 10:39 am

I, for one, am one of the guys who prefers a little extra padding. I never understood the Cosmopolitan people who absolutely, positively could not find it in themselves to kiss, cuddle, lie down with or even talk to someone who was even a little heavier than borderline skeletal.

Maybe I'm not "normal" from all those years of being a nerd up until high school graduation. Maybe Freud was right about men being attracted to women who resemble their mothers (and my mother has always had a little extra padding too. I hope it's just a coincidence.). Whatever the cause may be, I'm not a Cosmo guy. I'll take one woman with a puffy belly and a little extra curve around the hips and ass for a long-term sexual relationship, please.

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