What the heck is a BBW ?  

tazzerman2000 59M
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3/6/2006 10:40 am
What the heck is a BBW ?

Don't ya just hate that acronym? What the hell is a BBW?? I guess it stands for Big Boned Woman or something.

I know a lot of guys who will reject and/or just ignore any communications from a woman who identifies herself has being a BBW. It's kind of like the kiss of death or something.

BBW don't follow the societal 'norm' of what's supposed to be sexy. Sheesh! How shallow and stupid can we be huh?

Not me.... No sir.. (or mam!) I LOVE BBW

Of course, I love all woman but that's a different topic.

Society puts such a focus on the slim and trim. The flat stomach, thin waste, toned legs and tight ass that almost NO ONE can possibly live up to.

As a man, I can walk around a bit over weight and still attract women but put a few extra pounds on a woman and she's automatically relegated to BBW status.

Why isn't there a corresponding acronym for men? Like BBM or something?

'Large' women have always had a very special place in my heart. Some of the best sex I've ever had was with BBW..

I find it interesting that once you get past the insecurities and the typical crap that society has put into all of our heads you typically find one hell of a good lover, friend and great person in general.

Personally, I think that a lot of BBW have had to cultivate their own personalities more so then their slimmer sisters just in order to be recognized and noticed.

Because of that, they tend to be very interesting, funny and off the wall type of people. Just the kind I like

There's an old cliche that says BBW are just so happy to be having sex that their more willing to please and are more 'grateful'.

I personally don't believe that.

I do believe that most BBW are naturally passionate and I've found them to be a lot of fun in general which has nothing to do with them being more grateful or willing to please because their not getting any. It's exactly because they've known what it's like to be put down, or relegated to 2nd class that they're much more compassionate and loving.

How many of you BBWs have cried yourself to sleep on a weekend night because you couldn't find a date or were put down or left out only to have to dust yourself off the next day and get back in the game? That folks, builds character....

So, here's to ALL you woman who identify yourself as BBW. Don't let your slimmer sisters have all the fun. Get in there and find a guy who will love ya for who and what you are, inside and out... You all are sexy as hell to me and there are LOTS of other guys out there who feel the same way. Luv -tm


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tazzerman2000 59M
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4/3/2006 2:41 pm

VAangel4u, absolutely. I find confidence, humor and intelligence the greatest turn ons in the world. Big Beautiful Women are definitly some of the BEST flirters AND lovers I've ever seen/had. By far!!! Give me a woman with some meat on her bones everytime. Here's to ALL of you BBW women you guys ALL ROCK! -tm

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rm_VAangel4u 47F
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4/2/2006 8:16 pm

As a BBW, I thank you. The acronym stands for Big Beautiful Woman and the one for men is bhm and stands for Big Handsome Man.

One friend says that the standard image of what is beautiful today (the boney chics in other words) is a womans perspective of what should be attractive. Generally, I've found men to find confidence and humor to be attractive. And bbw's can flirt just like a skinny minny if they let themselves


tazzerman2000 59M
18959 posts
3/20/2006 7:31 am

Curious, it was from the heart. I love everybody but have a very special place in my heart for BBWs for sure. I'm also SOOO sorry to hear about your trials and tribulations. (The lead in message to your blog) Baby, you just gotta find the right lover or lovers..

I just wish you were somewhere close by. The ol Tazzerman would take GOOD care of ya -tm

p.s. Post some of your thoughts in your blog so we can get to know ya a bit and comment etc??? and btw, I just LOVE that pic. Is that you?

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rm_Curious25124 37F
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3/14/2006 8:44 pm

Thanks for the observations about BBW. It's appreciated greatly and very refreshing


tazzerman2000 59M
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3/14/2006 12:46 pm

Awww Mzhuny, I don't think you fall into the BBW catagory. Well, unless it actually DOES stand for BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMAN -tm

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