People in my network  

taste_me_tease 35F
156 posts
12/1/2005 10:26 am

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People in my network

I wonder if the people in my network if they are actually real of they are just kinda fake. Some of them I have met once or twice it has been great but then they drift away never to hear almost a boo. What is this suppose to mean. Then the other half you start talking to them and then u never hear from them but yet they have access to photo albums and you know pictures are being looked at. Do you think people should be removed or access to photo albums should be taken away and if those who really want in will contact. Does anyone have any suggestions. Or anyone run across something like this.

bootielover3 56M

12/1/2005 2:14 pm

I wonder also, I mean I contacted a couple the emailed back asking for a photo (didn't have any when I sent first email), sent them one.
then I get back looking for something different. Okay everything normal (rejection standard operating procedure, lol) next day here they are in my friends network.

I've never met anyone from this site. Iwas hoping to at least make friends, hooking up what a benefit if it happened, but you write and write and nothing.

Sorry, I always seem to be ranting but Ireally am frustrated.

Great day!!

Snoopy28 48M
170 posts
12/14/2005 6:21 am

Typically when I talk with people on my buddy network, I keep them there. When I say hello a few times and they are online, and never get a response back, I figure they either lost interest or really aren’t a friend anyway. That’s not to say we aren’t all busy and sometimes leave the messenger on and then walk away from the computer. Basically after a period of time and still nothing I just figure oh well, and zap it off the network.

teamroper65 51M

12/15/2005 12:02 pm

I think on these sites, a lot of people are just curious and want to see what's out there. There are people who are lonely and want to meet someone special. That is hard anywhere in life. We all have to be able to take our time before you leap; be it for friendship,romance, or just sex. There are alot on the site who are in a bad relationship who may be looking for the perfect mate right now that doesn't happen. If you get frustrated, relax, post a note or blog and your time will come. Remember don't be a pain to others and allow others to chose to be nice to you.

la485 43M/42F
15 posts
12/19/2005 12:42 am

i am hardly ever on line anymore most of the time i check people to see if they are online or not i have met people from this site but not for any sex or anything i have made a few friends. most people on here say they are looking for something then are too picky about what they find so say a few friends i had made here. i also know of a marriage that was ruined by this site both were willing participants but he had too much fun and she got mad ( ie started meeting other couples on his own) some people are real some like to be anonymous for whatever reason (which is us) i like reading tastes blog she has good insite and actually keeps up her topics but remember folks do not look for too much here there are allot of people like us most are just curiouse about the lifestyle or are looking for ideas for thier own sex lives..( like us )

taste_me_tease 35F

12/20/2005 12:30 pm

Thank you la for that comment and yes I understand totally what you say. When people say they are real you find out they dont even know what they want. The blogs I put up are things as I see it. Sure everyone has their own opinion. I myself will say that I have some people who probably are not very happy with me cause after they sent a picture I find out it is not what I am looking for. But I always try and be honest with what I am looking for.

rm_mrshyguy743 42M
6 posts
12/20/2005 7:44 pm

well some times the ppl around here are so fake that even i have met a girl here and it happend to be a friend from my family for a long time and i have never know it. but i have even asked her about what did she wanted to do with me and ahe told me that her father that knows me since i was a kid, told her to watch out. she is so fake and at the same time a good friend. so if i get a chance to meet and too please some one on their own terms that will be okay for me. but i don't like for ppl to give me run arounds, cause im very old for that. i tell you who i am and i mean it.

taste_me_tease 35F

12/20/2005 8:11 pm

mr shy thank you for your comment I know what you mean about people being fake, there are people on this site who put pictures up and when u meet them you know that cant be there pictures. Why people have to be dishonest espically when u are trying to meet someone. I can say that when I start chatting with someone I always tell them things that should be known about me so if they want to run they can before it goes any farther.

blaker66 50M/46F

2/15/2006 7:30 am

I think you have hit it dead on, this sight is like anything or any place, you get all kinds of people looking for all kinds of things. It took me 35 years and 2 divorses to find my true wife and it was wirth every second. The way we are approaching it, we may not help anyone reach the next level in life but we sure don't want to hold anyone back or hurt them in any way.

Thanks for listening!!!!

blaker66 50M/46F

2/15/2006 8:05 am

I wanted to comment on the fraze "real people", the way I believe people can come off looking fake is like what la485 said people alot of people on this sight or just asking questions about themselves a.e...what am I realing looking for, am I attractive to others? And unfortunately sometimes they don't get the answers they were expecting. Just because the thought of meeting some one arouses you dosen't meen meeting them is what you want, so people get scared, they are affraid someone will recognize them in the store-we if they do that means they were on here looking. Why do most people hide porn(away from kids you better be)I think it's that little side of themselves that they aren't very comfortable with yet. I truely believe that people can only be as open and real with others as they are with them selves. We have choisen to walk our road if someone else is going the same direction at the same time than maybe we will walk together for a time if not we are still going. Hope to see some of you on the road

taste_me_tease 35F

2/15/2006 6:08 pm

Hey Blaker I agree with what you said, I had read somewhere that daydreaming is like thinking about something we would want but are not allowing ourselves to achieve it. Like a lot of women who wonder what its like to be with another women. I do not try to be anything Im not sometimes I wish I could though.

blaker66 50M/46F

2/19/2006 11:36 am

Taste, please don't ever try to be something your not, it is a loaded statment, because you can not be anything that you are not, we wake up each and every day and though it may not seem like it, we remake ourselves hopefully building on the person we were the day before. I believe we have the choice, it is our greatest gift and our worst tortcher. I have enjoyed each and every chat we have had, keep bringing it girl! LOL

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