It's amazing how...  

tampafem 44F
1941 posts
7/30/2006 10:08 am

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It's amazing how...

with some people you meet there's an instant spark. I had that with a fellow AdultFriendFinder'er I met last night. Basically I went to Bricktown met up with him and a group of my friends. I got toasted big time. The AdultFriendFinder'er (C) was going to drive me home since I was way to drunk to drive, stay over and take me back to my car this morning. I agreed but let it be known that he was sleeping on my spare futon. I know some of you might be thinking "that's harsh" but I'm not the type of person to just jump in bed with someone I meet the first time. I wanted to be upfront and honest and not lead him to think there would be more than there was.

At about 1 my friend (K) was leaving and I let him drive me home instead. I'm sure that upset C because he thinks K has a thing for me, K doesn't. Yea I like K and would like more than being just friends but it's not something he's interested in. Common sense kicked in last night and my friends were looking out for me and let me know it wasn't safe to let a complete stranger into my home. Which is fine because, well, I've given them the same lecture PLENTY of times.

So I ended up saying goodnight to C, my sinuses were pretty irritated and I was starting to get a headache from the smoke. But STUPID STUPID me.
Did I get his number?? NOOOOOOOO
Do I remember his AdultFriendFinder ID? Of course not, I would if I ran across it. So for the last hour I've looked high and low trying to see if he viewed my profile, was on my cupid list, sent me an email....anything. Nada. Crap crap crap. So I'm trying to figure out if there's a way I can find out if there's a list on here of profiles I've recently viewed. So if anyone out there knows of this I would greatly appreciate the help because I do want to get to know C, I'd like to see him again. I feel like I just walked out on him.

So what about this guy got under my skin you might ask? Great sense of humor, wonderful conversationalist (yea intellect is a HUGE turn on for me), very easygoing type guy, someone who I could really relax with and not feel all edgy around. I didn't pick up any bad vibes at all which is rare. Even though I had on my glasses I didn't feel all self conscious. Like I could be me, and finding someone that I'm that comfortable with is REALLY REALLY rare.

It was nice to feel wanted last night, like I was the only woman in the room (goodness knows there were TONS of women at Bricktown last night). He was complimentary, very sweet, a lot of fun to be around. When we talk about missed opportunities yea this feels like one. I invited him to join TASA and I only hope he does so I can contact him again, if nothing else to thank him for a really wonderful evening.


__poet__ 45M
3583 posts
7/30/2006 11:29 am

I'm sure that he will find you tfem...

guys are resourceful like that, especially when we read posts like this...

Glad you had fun!

"There are no shortcuts to life's greatest achievements; therefore we take these risks not to escape life but to prevent life from escaping us!"poet
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NoLongerHere 55M

7/30/2006 10:14 pm

I'm so glad you had a good time at Bricktown babe. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you on the search


heavensent11236 52F

8/1/2006 4:51 am

Congrats!!!! Doesn't it make you feel wonderful when some guy REALLY cathces your attention????


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