There is no greater force of human nature than a horny woman  

tamethytension 54M
1659 posts
10/4/2005 1:42 am

Last Read:
2/16/2007 9:15 pm

There is no greater force of human nature than a horny woman

sexyfitwoman in her post Who has the higher sex drive
remarked ...

... [It is] said that men have a higher sex drive, and I think that is a wide spread belief, but I do wonder if it is sex drive or perhaps that women just put more brakes on sexual activity?

It has me thinking, what is the difference between sex drive and how horny you get in the moment? I think men get very horny in the moment, they have been known to promise the world. This is where I think woman put on the brakes, the drive is there, but there can be a list of other needs before a woman lets go.

These things happen in both sexes, but I think there are those differences in how much they happen between the sexes.

=========================

Sexyfitwoman,

you have hit it on the mark.

Consider the way in which men and women approach their preparations for sex. In men mentally, the switch is always on only to be hindered by the level of stress one is under. The more control an individual has over one's life (usually translating into less stress) the more likely this switch is not only on but in full throttle. Our drive is naturally a function of how well prepared we are in handling our circumstances. Therefore, we have a very strong mental drive. We may even deliberately choose to block this switch (if only for our sanity) by engaging in compulsive numerical behaviour (e.g. play chess, video games, math problems, engineering problems, baseball statistics, etc.). Remove or reduce impediments of stress, and improve physical condition, and we're seemingly good-to-go all the time. The physical aspect is where the limitations lay although today in the worse case scenario chemicals may be introduced to support us. However, in the end, there are still physical limitations to replenishing energy and fluids, etc. (and these too we try to deplete through sports and other physical activities if only for our sanity).

Women signal their near constant receptivity for sex with permanently enlarged breasts (look it up, there is an extensive evolutionary literature supporting this hypothesis). In all other mammals teats are swollen solely as a function of estrous (in heat). Only in the Great Apes are breasts swollen year round associated with a monthly estrous cycle. Therefore, barring a few days each month menstrating ... and even not then for all, the physical switch is nearly always on, and may even go into overdrive on a cyclical basis. Otherwise, only pregnancy interrupts this physical receptivity. Furthermore, female receptivity is known to synchronize within groups closely associated with each over time so as to optimize mating opportunities (evolutionarily warranted in historic times of low population levels where meeting up with potential mates outside one's immediate gene pool was comparatively rare). Where the basic limitation lay in women is the mental receptivity which is so closely tied to a sense of feeling "safe" with both her mate and the circumstances of the mating. Exactly what this level of safety is may vary amongst individuals, but some level is true of the vast majority of women. This harkens back to when it was necessary to ascertain qualities in a mate such as being a good provider, protector, etc. And is seen today in the need for romance or otherwise some scenario that brings peace of mind to a women. How many times here have we read of women achieving their greatest orgasms with a man to whom they felt they could totally let go.

In short, counter-intuitively, male drive is mental and female drive is physical. Provided the male has the physical wherewithal to unleash his mental drive, it can be formidible. But in the end it is still limited in its physical expression (i.e. only so much sperm production, etc. within a specific time frame). On the other hand, given the necessary mental motivation, a woman is simply insatiable with regard to her sex drive. As there is substantially less physical limitation for her, a woman has a much greater drive than a man.

Bottomline, there is no greater force of human nature than a horny woman.

cheers

TTT
PS> There must be at least 20 hrs of programming that periodically crops up on the Discovery channel or PBS from time to time, and several texts that solely focus on this matter. The examples, across human civilization, are striking for their fundamental similarities despite all out efforts to mask our nature with culture.


rm_m2shy2000 43F
8 posts
11/15/2006 7:44 am

Yeh..mybe..i cud have that one, hot and passionate thing at this time...


mm0206 68F
7767 posts
11/9/2006 8:30 am

Thanks for making my day brighter.

Some of these posts are chilling in the similiarities to things I have thought
and precepts of the way I am... I guess basicly we(females) are all alike....
Needing so little to give without conditions.

I am posting that poem on your front page on my blog, I hope you dont mind, and of course I will link back to your blog.....
I will miss you but hope you return refreshed and renewed, and with more thoughts that I can disect and find the man/god that writes with such clarity and substance.

...m.


tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
10/5/2005 8:31 am

1hotwahine .... yep hormones raging ... of course I was also generalizaing of adult males. This does not apply to 15 yr olds who would hump a manequin. Who needed porn at that age? I only had to flip open the Sears catalogue to the bra section and my throbbing boner was leaking seminal fluids.

nbtnt ... does the K man ever get a break?

onelittlesecret .. DUDE! ... thanks ...

DefiniteTrouble ... "I'll become a insatiable nympho at your service." .... ahhhhhhhhh ... just a minute, I had something coherent to say ......... oh yes ...... wait it'll come to me .............................................................................ummmm that handle is pretty accurate isn't it ....................................................................Ok, never mind ... probably won't think straight the rest of the day.


tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
10/5/2005 8:19 am

Wyvern ... unfortunately my basement teleportation device is rated at 3 gigahertz ... only good enough to reach Santa Cruz CA ... tried boosting the power to get me to Fairbanks, Alaska but alas the power overloaded. Good thing I had the safeties in place. Didn't want a repeat of that blackout of half the eastern seaboard like last year. Ha ... and those New Yorkers still think it is was a tree rubbing against a high tension wire .....LOL


wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
10/4/2005 8:46 pm

on second thought TTT would you care to stop by my place tonight

WyvernRose


wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
10/4/2005 8:46 pm

hmmmmmmmmmmm I think you maybe spot on with this....

I just can't stop going for it although after a few weeks of sex I think I could do with a day or two of rest

WyvernRose


rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
10/4/2005 11:18 am

I think it's physiology more than anything else. There are many times that I really want to have sex (or make love, or have an encounter or all of those other ways of describing the event, all different from the other). But once a month, when my hormones are raging, the drive is different. It's pure physiology. All I really want is that release, bells & whistles not necessary. And at that time I feel more like I'm experiencing the traditional version of how it is for a man.

Disclaimer: This comment contains sweeping gender generalizations and stereotypes. Not intended to apply to all occupants of each gender.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]


onelittlesecret 33M
1579 posts
10/4/2005 8:48 am

I think you are one perceptive dude.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/4/2005 8:03 am

"Bottomline, there is no greater force of human nature than a horny woman." -

I agree 100%, TTT. And your observations regarding what drives our sexual appetite is dead on, at least for me anyway. Seduce my mind, gain my trust, reassure my comfort level...I'll become a insatiable nympho at your service.


Become a member to create a blog