That she believes in me to the core of her being ...  

tamethytension 54M
1659 posts
9/16/2005 9:16 am

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That she believes in me to the core of her being ...

... is, for me, the universal truth, the quintessence of what a man seeks in a deep, loving relationship with a woman. For upon that rock of faith, we are unconquerable before the world.

It took a comment from Network_Minx however, for me to see the obverse of that truth, the flipside of the same coin. That there is no greater betrayal than that of her faith in you.

So to all those who would lie to a woman against the possibility of such a relationship, know with just certainty that you cheat yourself all the more.

inspired by Lifeisablast333 & Network_Minx

tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
9/18/2005 10:04 am

You are loved here Saint ... by many. They love you for your mind, for your heart ... they love you for YOU ...

... small comfort for the body, that touch we all crave ... but that too will come.

frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
9/18/2005 12:42 am

To find a man and to be able to put all my faith and world at his feet would be the greatest. But it will take the earning of trust...and that is not freely given. But once earned, I give all. And once lost, never totally restored.
I can honestly say I have only loved 2 men in my life, and am not proud to say 1 was not my ex. I can also say, 1 will never, ever have my trust again.
But I am also waiting for the day and the love to be able to give my ALL to a special man. T


rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
9/17/2005 11:07 pm

No, I worded it wrong, I do believe in all of that, I dont believe that it exists for me. Period.

tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
9/17/2005 2:04 pm

What are you trying to say Saint?

That there are no universal truths? Humanity is a universal truth, and so is inhumanity. I speak here of the former.

That there are no women that express undying faith in their man anymore? I see it all around me ... and have seen it every day I have ever looked upon my parents.

That men do not find that unconditional belief in them by their partner the source of both their salvation and their courage against the trials and tribulations of life? All around me their are examples in spades. No matter how beaten down, at the end of the day, to have a woman believe in you is the most precious gift one can have. You cannot tell me this does not exist. History is replete with women standing by their man under the most horrific circumstances. Their are men in battle this day in foreign lands, far from loved ones, with little but faith to sustain them. For some it is supplemented by a faith in country, faith in their brothers, but at their core, at a minimum it is the knowledge that somewhere back home there is woman (perhaps only their mother) but a woman nonetheless that believes in them that has them carry on, to live on.

In turn, are you saying that the failure of a man to stand by his woman does not take place? That this failure would not constitute the greatest betrayal. It is why weak men, upon learning their partner is leaving them, first shrivel and then lash out. It is why they become controlling and possessive, out of the sheer fear of losing what little faith anyone may have expressed in them to begin with; the fear that they will never find it again. Some are willing to kill, so disturbed are they by the notion you may find another in whom your faith will empower.

Faith is a powerful thing, and so too is the lack of it.
And it stares each and everyone of us in the face every day.
All that may not exist, is our acknowledgement of it, and
therefore our appreciation for it. That my Dear is shown
through love ... and yes that can be a truly elusive thing.


rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
9/17/2005 11:59 am

Plow, you may be a ranger but you don't know everything.

kyplowboy2 61M

9/17/2005 9:18 am

Ah, sweet sAINT, I beg to differ. Triple T, I like your stuff and will be back to follow it closer when I get back in town.

[blog plowin']

rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
9/17/2005 1:26 am

There is not such a thing that exists in this world and I am not going to try to fool myself anymore.

lifeisablast333 54M

9/16/2005 7:37 pm

thanks for the credit, but that was you if i remember correctly.
You gave that as an answer, to a question, and i thought it was the best response i got on that was you all i did was agree.
and if a person finds that they are lucky, i was 40 before i ever
feel in love like that, and i am very lucky, it is returned each day.

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