So you are on top ... now what?  

tamethytension 54M
1659 posts
9/15/2005 9:38 pm

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So you are on top ... now what?

Another blog inspired by Mandy at goddessofbitches
Previously posted as commentary/advice on the ability/inability of achieving female orgasm while on top.

My questions were ...

Are you talking about riding ... knees splayed, pumping ass back and forth?

Are you squatting and thrusting up n down while your hands are grasped in his for balance?

Are you facing me or away?

Are your knees tucked under your chin?

The point to these questions was to illustrate that there are options whilst on top of your partner. One or more may work for you. Cumming on top can be more work if you are stuck in one mode but try exploring ...

What of it ladies ... what is your experience? Favored variation? I have recently been impressed by the squat-thrust technique, however ...

... in this position where the onus has been on me to get her there my best success for bringing a woman to orgasm is to keep things gentle with protracted sensual exploration, building her slowly giving time for her g-spot to descend and ample juices flowing. About the time you start to purr from the delicate ministrations, I force you erect over me, then lifting my pelvis to bring you completely off the sheets, hands clenched, ease you back arching so as to push down on the last inch and and half of cock that resides underneath the skin, taking every advantage of its curvature to fill your canal its entire length, my head hitting your g-spot like a guided missile. You take it from there in a slow, circuitous grind for several minutes of pulsating, waves of pleasure.

simply put, there is on top and then there is ON TOP!

as in anything else. I encourage experimentation.



stormyonegood 63F

10/29/2006 6:17 am

I really enjoy reading your posts and when I have some time I will be back to read more....

BTW.....I like trying at least 3 or 4 different positions in one love-making they say, variety is the spice of life...wink....gotta keep it fun, and enjoyable....

But the reverse cowboy is my newest favorite....I like the control that it gives me....

stormyonegood 63F

10/28/2006 8:46 pm a horse ride a cowboy....

I like reverse cowboy thrusting up and down.....

Nice view for the cowboy...wink...


tamethytension replies on 10/29/2006 5:47 am:
yes, a lovely view ... almost too many things to consider at once. But what I really love is the sense of her impaling herself on my spike ... seeing myself going in and out ... easiest to do when I'm on my back.

(Princess Lips)

9/27/2005 10:12 am

come...( takes TTT by the hand)
let me SHOW you...


Luv2Banter 57F

9/26/2005 10:00 pm

I would have to answer....all of the above. Each one brings on various levels of enjoyment. Some positions are meant for pure selfish pleasure and enjoyment. Others are meant for the lucky man. I love watching the expression on his face when I surprise him with those little known love positions.

frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
9/18/2005 12:31 am

I love being on top riding. MY problem is I have only had 1 orgasm in my life and made in front of me for weeks afterwards. So I never been able to let my self totally let go again. I have been mightly close though, and am getting better at telling myself that it is okay to totally let go.
I gushed so much he swore I wet his bed... T


tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
9/17/2005 9:55 am


God Almighty woman ....

you have me where you want you me ... nice aim

and I am spent ... so thoroughly I breathe naught but perspiration.

I can but moan the remainder of the day, your passion
never far from my focus.


tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
9/17/2005 9:44 am


TTTutorial services are being offered at this time. The lesson plan begins with pelvic insertion techniques, progressing to aerobic exercises, device augmentation, and bucking bronco fucking. Private mentoring is only available to naughty girls that have been especially good to their teacher.

__Huntress__ 55M/57F

9/17/2005 8:55 am

Squatting and thrusting ... forward and back ... while your hands drive my hips and I grasp the headboard so as to transfer the power of these movements into my thighs ... free of all restraint ... I plunge forward and back, foward and back ... in quick succession ... as each fervent thrust bores you deeper and deeper ... and I feel you tap, tap, tapping ... my spine ... !

goddessofbitches 41M/33F

9/16/2005 1:58 pm

You know...I think I am going to need you to help demonstrate these positions...

Now...which position should we do first?? Oh..and...Can we play alone after we're done showing fellow bloggers these on-top positions?


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