Pros & cons of Clit Spanking?  

tamethytension 54M
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7/23/2005 8:56 am

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Pros & cons of Clit Spanking?


Not long ago had the pleasure of educating a very nice young woman of 36 who had only known a couple of guys, including a dim-witted husband, her entirely life. Divorced 3 years, I was her first in quite a while. From a very southern conservative background, as a very proper lady she had very little experience yet found herself reaching out to new experiences cum what may. And I obliged.

She was an extraordinarily apt student. Each new level of naughtiness, beget another .... well that's a whole blog or two. The relevant point here is what I discovered of stimulating her clit. While a number of women seem to enjoy their clit spanked playfully, I have never brought a woman to orgasm in this fashion until her. In a doggie style position, she had her ass high in the air and legs well apart. I knelt at her side with a firm hand to her back (during the process I varied it's position along the length of the spine but she proved most responsive with a firm, not bruising, grip of her neck). This provide the necessary counter-balance to my reaching behind with my open palm. Now this pussy had already been worked over, was thoroughly wet, and she had already reached orgasm vaginally. No doubt men know that many women having experienced orgasm, are more conducive to subsequent orgasm and so this is a propitious time to experiment with those positions with which you are less proficient. In this case, I had started simple massage, leading to a vigorous open hand movement which simply laid the palm across much of the vagina and fingertips reaching the clit. This was not a rubbing motion but a full hand massage ... only with as much vigor as I could muster (There is a good reason why Popeye had the forearms he had and not because Olive Oyl was frigid). However, this is not something I can maintain for long (wrist tendenitis) and must alter the cadence ... a light spanking rythym is an easy solution keeping up a level of stimulus while my arm strength refreshes. However, my little lovely immediately stepped up the volume or her ardor. That she further found this pleasing was evidenced by her thrusting her pelvis back into my hand when I had drawn it away. But this not only put her out of position for spanking but threatened to send me off the bed. This is where the neck grip (no don't strangle her) is needed given you balance while at the same time restraining your horny little minx, controlling her wantoness, providing a nice mental tease for her to comtemplate. And so from here I leave the men to experiment as they may ... just how hard and fast the spanking proceeds from here will be a matter of how much she takes ... but I do suggest that you push her limits ... she will want you to. When you cross the line ... back off ... rest up ... and start over.

So what are the pros & cons of clit spanking?
Clearly for some women this is a really wonderful and very different experience that provides some added spice to a traditional position. But I would equally wish to hear of any negative experiences ... we're all here to learn from each other.

cheers

H4H

cheryllikesbig 44F
11 posts
12/31/2006 11:45 pm

oh yea....clit spanking is nice. I've been with 2 guys who have done it to me and both times it made me so excited....the one guy it had really been just ho-hum sex up until then but he did that and I literally begged him to give me some more cock. mmmmm i need to find a man who will do it.


JaniSux 44F

10/14/2006 9:29 pm

Well I do enjoy a little smack every once in a while in between other play.. I love to be fingered and teased and have my clit massaged.. and every once in a while a smack..

I have had guys who overdo the smack and smackSmackSMAckSMACKSMACKKKK! That's too too much... surprise me in between doing other things.. and then there are guys who smack too hard.. and that can be more pain than fun.. so you're right that there could be good and bad in everything... I still say give it a try... women may love it like I do.. it's sooo very hot..

*blush*
Janie

I know.. i know.. I'm late getting to this post.. but I didn't see it til now.. lol


tamethytension replies on 10/14/2006 9:49 pm:
Thank you very much for your insight Janie. And now that we can see where bloggers leave comment throughout our blogger, it is never too late.

WhipplashBlonde 47F

7/29/2005 12:39 pm

This blog makes my clit ache for firm attention. A big strong hand encircling my neck if not to counter-balance but to serve as a reminder of Dominance, Confidence and Perception...already knowing what is needed long before i could ever imagine it.


silkysmoothlegs3 105F

7/25/2005 5:29 am

You make that sound so exciting TTT

Thing is there are many women in the same position as your lady, married to men for years took their own pleasure and rolled over and went to sleep,

TTT keep writing and educate all those men that just dont bother pleasuring a women.


tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
7/23/2005 7:39 pm

1_Reallady,

A very good point, and one that I think applies to other new experiences.


rm_1_reallady 62F
4 posts
7/23/2005 6:35 pm

i relate to the lady you wrote about above....for i was once like her reaching out for new experiences,after a divorce,after a sexually faithful marriage..(on my part)....therfore a new experience can be very stimulating to one who has never had it (example the clit spank) before..but that doesnt mean that it will have the same effect .reaction each and every time! it may have "just been ogasimic at that particuliar time.place mood setting partner etc..and have the adverse effect the next time..but thats just this woman's experience so guys just because it was "a turn on once doesnt mean it will always be so!!! yeah i know WOMEN can understand them!!!! LOL


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