Making her feel special  

tamethytension 54M
1659 posts
9/13/2005 10:59 pm

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Making her feel special


By way of getting back into the swing of things ... it should be known that I was drawn back, in part, by a couple of simple, yet poignant questions posed by magnet4u22
and my responses within her blog which I duplicate here as they are fairly personal and speak to my true sense of these things in a succinct fashion.

Q: How do you make a woman feel special,secure and wanted, not just during the act itself, but before and after?

For many men words come cheaply. As a man of few words (to the consternation of many women), I prefer to act.

Before the intimacy of sex, there is the intimacy of looking into her eyes and listening (not merely hearing) what she has to say.

During, it is a matter of paying attention to every detail of her body and mind her needs.

After, it is a simple thing, but powerful nonetheless ... to pull her into your embrace as to never let go, such that neither the forces of nature nor man could come between us.

And then a kiss, the tenderest of kisses ... to her shoulder, to her forehead, and then to her lips ... an assurance that this is more than a dream.

Q: Men, you have found a woman who feels that you are absolutely adorable. How do you want her to show you that you are so special, adored, and wanted? Showing you not only in the act itself, but before and after.

As in much of life, it is in the little things I look for her adoration ...

acceptance of my quirks ...

reading my body language ...

understanding my moods ...

anticipating my needs ...

permissive of my desires ...

the little things that are oh so complex to master ... yet are far more meaningful than any grand overture that ultimately requires far less effort.

cheers

TTT

___desires___ 51F

10/8/2006 2:20 pm

Thank you for inviting me to read your blog~~I find it very well written and very true. You seem to have mastered the knowledge of what a women wants and needs. There is so much more on the inside than can ever be discovered on the outside. The complex workings of my mind when I'm in love work only to please him. In turn, my body will respond to him like a well oiled machine. You write wonderfully well...nice to have met you. Samantha


frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
9/18/2005 12:25 am

Would be nice if men were as open as you and able to express how a womans body is to him, truthfully. Not just a body to pound upon. T

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tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
9/17/2005 11:21 am

Sizzle ... man thanks for stopping by. I have been sharing secrets with the ladies for a while ... seems to keep them coming back for more.

GOTD ... ever a pleasure to host a visit by the reigning deity of Blogland.

SaintLianna ... they have copies in Montana, but I found it on a secret scroll in Bear Cave.

MizzKitka ... thank you for your understanding. It does take patience with me...

DD ... perhaps I should start up a 900 service advice line.

sj365 ... you are too kind. I feel a blog coming on ... My Quirks; only I'm afraid you may not find them all that endearing.


tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
9/17/2005 11:19 am

Sizzle, man thanks for stopping. Afraid, I have been sharing secrets with the ladies for a while ... seems to keep them coming back for more

GOTD ... ever a pleasure to host a visit by the reigning deity of Blogland.

SaintLianna ... they have copies in Monatana, but I found it on a secret scroll in Bear Cave

MizzKitka ... thank you for your understanding. It does take patience with me...

DD ... perhaps I should start up my 900 service advice line.

sj365 ... you are too kind. I feel a blog coming on ... My Quirks; only I'm afraid you may not find them all that endearing.


rm_sj365 55F
2414 posts
9/14/2005 9:21 pm

"acceptance of my quirks... "
quirk, endearing quality...same thing


__Huntress__ 55M/58F

9/14/2005 4:42 am

Here lies a man who reads a woman as though her secrets and desires were cut in stone ... it is so good to see you back ... a warm kiss to rest on your beautiful soul ... !


rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
9/14/2005 12:45 am

Thank you, now why is that so hard for men to figure out? You would think that it is a heavily guarded Pentagon secret that is buried in a missle silo in Montana.


GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
9/13/2005 11:44 pm

personal indeed.... and so powerful

wonderful, thank you for sharing


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
9/13/2005 11:37 pm

Tame...You're telling all of our Man secrets... well, I guess there are some ladies that need to know...


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