Be a straight shooter  

taliah4u 44F
12 posts
6/28/2006 10:42 am

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6/29/2006 10:18 am

Be a straight shooter


I don't understand why so many people have to play games with other folks. I'm pretty honest about what I want and have no desire to play games with any of you men, why waste my time and yours? It's pointless, I know what I'm looking for and you should know what it is that you're looking for. nothing good can come from beating around the bush etc. (pardon the pun lol)

Most men my age sadly don't understand what a woman really wants, which is why I want someone older and established in life. I'm tired of head games and the junk that goes with it, if you live up to my expectations, I can surely live up to yours.

buddhamike 105M
7006 posts
6/28/2006 12:24 pm

If this is caused by not getting many replies from men who meet your requirements and are honest about it, maybe it's because your profile says you are looking for a man with a lot of money, and that kind of man doesn't need to use AdultFriendFinder to find more than enough women who will cater to his needs.


CB_2 51F

6/28/2006 12:48 pm

Well said Taliah. The problem is, if you are up straight about what you want, I find there are far too many men who think they like the idea but in fact are terrified and run for cover when their traditional notions of masculinity are threatened.

As an example, I drove 2 hours to see my former (then current) lover, specifically for a shag. When I got there, we fooled around for a bitm then he suggested we go to the bedroom. I enthusiastically agreed (ok, maybe dragging him there by the belt on his trousers was a bit of a cliche), to which he muttered semi-humorously "not much persuasion needed there, then".

Err, I had just driven 2 hours to see him for a shag. What on earth possessed him to thik he needed to persuade me? Simply put, he thought that was his job as the man, to talk me into hving sex with him.

I give in!

Blogito ergo sum.


CB_2 51F

6/28/2006 12:50 pm

Fair point Buddhamike - I hadn't looked at Taliah's profile before posting.

Blogito ergo sum.


taliah4u 44F

6/28/2006 7:49 pm

    Quoting buddhamike:
    If this is caused by not getting many replies from men who meet your requirements and are honest about it, maybe it's because your profile says you are looking for a man with a lot of money, and that kind of man doesn't need to use AdultFriendFinder to find more than enough women who will cater to his needs.
I don't think that's necessarily true, alot of men don't have time to go out and meet women, just like some of us ladies don't either, so they use sites such as AdultFriendFinder to find what they are looking for. And actually my comments are based on the fact that some men say, "oh yeah I am what you're looking for" when clearly they're not and you can tell by their responses. Like if you don't know what a sugar daddy is, then just say so LOL. I'm not saying those are the only types of responses I'm getting either, so far I've went out on two dates, but when meeting them, I could clearly tell there was no "sugar daddy" in their personalities at all.


Djeeper1987 47M

6/29/2006 6:22 am

I get confused as what I want these days. But right now a nice tight pussy for my hard cock sounds about right. Too much information?

Carpe Diem


taliah4u 44F

6/29/2006 9:05 am

    Quoting Djeeper1987:
    I get confused as what I want these days. But right now a nice tight pussy for my hard cock sounds about right. Too much information?
LOL nope not too much information, better to just say it rather than have the person think they are getting something else.


buddhamike 105M
7006 posts
6/29/2006 9:33 am

    Quoting taliah4u:
    I don't think that's necessarily true, alot of men don't have time to go out and meet women, just like some of us ladies don't either, so they use sites such as AdultFriendFinder to find what they are looking for. And actually my comments are based on the fact that some men say, "oh yeah I am what you're looking for" when clearly they're not and you can tell by their responses. Like if you don't know what a sugar daddy is, then just say so LOL. I'm not saying those are the only types of responses I'm getting either, so far I've went out on two dates, but when meeting them, I could clearly tell there was no "sugar daddy" in their personalities at all.
I have to think you are right. I'm sure many men here ignore a woman's profile information about what they are looking for. It seems men tend to hope you will be so impressed by them that you will change your mind about what you are looking for. I guess many of us just have GIGANTIC egos. It must be difficult for women here at AdultFriendFinder to sort through all of the fellows of this type that send e-mail.

p.s your reply to my comment was particularly nice, considering the edgy tone of my comment. Thank you; it's better than I deserved!!


taliah4u 44F

6/29/2006 10:03 am

    Quoting buddhamike:
    I have to think you are right. I'm sure many men here ignore a woman's profile information about what they are looking for. It seems men tend to hope you will be so impressed by them that you will change your mind about what you are looking for. I guess many of us just have GIGANTIC egos. It must be difficult for women here at AdultFriendFinder to sort through all of the fellows of this type that send e-mail.

    p.s your reply to my comment was particularly nice, considering the edgy tone of my comment. Thank you; it's better than I deserved!!
I think in alot of cases people just look at the picture and think, "oh yeah I'd like to fuck her" and that's kosher too, if that's what she's looking for. But what you like in the bedroom and what I like in the bedroom can be two entirely different things, the same applies for what we are all hoping to get from AdultFriendFinder. Some folks want flings, other partners, role playing etc. in my case I want a sugar daddy, it doesn't mean I'm going to take all his money and run and that he's not going to get anything in return. Keeping yourself beautiful for the right man, isn't cheap, but clearly it is a win-win situation for both parties. I get what I want and he gets what he wants which usually consists of bedroom pleasures and I have no problem fulfilling those needs and desires either.

And yes alot of you men have gigantic egos LOL Do you know how many times I've heard, "I've got the hugest cock you've ever seen". You can have the hugest cock in the world, but do you know how to use it and please me? Alot of guys think they do, but in reality such is not the case.


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