SUBMISSION  

takeitnow22 61M
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11/19/2005 4:46 am

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SUBMISSION


As I peruse the profiles of women I've noticed a very common theme. The desire to be in a submissive role. It's often expressed in a vague manner "Someone to tell me what to do." of "Someone to take control." In addition to these statements many women list in their fantasies abduction as a strong theme. Within the toys in the bedroom section handcuffs are virtually universal. The most common role playing scenarios are cop/prisoner and and master/slave. It's clear that many women (not all) seek participation in a submissive role. This is not to be confused with feminine weakness. It is, if if done properly, a truly powerful expression of a woman's strength. It takes far more courage to submit and trust than it does to dominate and control. But how does a woman (or man) find a relationship in which she can express these desires? To convert a vague desire into real experience? She must understand the basics which make for a successful denominate/submissive relationship. She must understand that it is the submissive one who is the one who is really in control. Power is derived from permission. And giving a man permission to take control, to tell her what to do, to spank, or verbally abuse her is the bridge she must cross. It is ironic and counterintuitive. Many women, I believe, get into trouble when they are attracted to a dominate seeming male. They are confused. The problem is that a man who is only interested in his dominance (a bully) and not in a woman's submissive desires is the difference between a naughty girl being spanked and a good woman being beaten. The role of a dominate is one of awesome responsibility. He must be creative and have his sub's desires as his highest priority. Without this, he will be a failure. He must deeply care for her and endeavor to fulfill her desires. It is the responsibility of both to communicate, be it a wink, or through contradictory language "Oh, please don't tie me up." But a steady stream of feed back is necessary from both. Women who are interested in being "treated like a slut" can find enormous satisfaction within the right relationship. As it is a loving and caring relationship that allows for such desires to be fulfilled. AdultFriendFinder is an excellent place to find such a relationship. This is the place to explore and to be frank. After all, if a couple meet at work and a relationship develops it's hard to say to your new lover after several months "Darling, I'd love it if I were dress up as a school girl and tease you and then you spank me for being naughty." Or "Darling, our sex is great but tonight I'd like to tie you up and call you a fucking cum whore." It's too late. So, we start here. Looking, inquiring, poking around for a suitable match. For a successful relationship of this nature the very contradictory nature must be understood up front. And it is a relationship that goes beyond sex. It is about an intimacy and trust that conventional sex cannot achieve. Trust me on this point Takeitnow22 Comments Please.

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