just another day...  

sxnwy 49F
27 posts
8/28/2006 11:06 am

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just another day...

I came to this blog today because i had an idea about something and now that i'm here i can't remember what i was going to write about lol..figures huh?
so i guess i'll just post some questions and see if anyone answers...
1. Why are men so shy about sharing how they like to be stroked? I've asked several while doing this for some input and they all say "oh you're doing fine"...well we all know that's not true...why not say something..less? more pressure? faster? slower? anything?? lol..I'm a perfectionist...so i ask a lot of questions because i want to be the best at everything i do lol..and i can't do that if you won't tell me what you like??

2. The same can be said with oral sex. if you ask me i'll tell you exactly what to do..if you need to be told..if you're doing something and it's working i'll also let you know...so why not speak up and tell me if i'm using too much pressure...or going to fast or slow..it will just make it that much better the next time...i do pay attention..and i'm sure other women feel the same way.

3. Ok...so i've been trying anal sex and not getting anywhere with this act...it just hurts...yes i use lube..yes we go slow...i'm not going to give up on it, mostly because i'm stubborn lol..i want to like it..i just haven't so far...well that's not entirely true..i liked it twice...and i don't know why those two times were different...so any input on this, especially from women would be greatly appreciated...

oh now i remember what i was going to blog about lol...this is just a little rant of sorts...i will not respond to anyone's email that has spelling errors..i hate that..poor grammar and spelling are just turn offs to me...i like someone that has a little intelligence...and there is spell check lol...so there is no excuse for it...that was it..just that one thing lol...but just one little thing can be a huge thing when it comes to chemistry, am i right?

willieatermuff 43M

8/28/2006 11:34 am

I agree 100% with you. I think more people should talk about how they like things. I am all ears when it comes to input. I think, like you, that it's the perfectionist in me. I also admire your spirirt regarding anal sex. Not many women would even try it, let alone try and perfect it. Good luck.

wasquic69 73M

8/28/2006 11:58 am

SXNWY; A lot of men are so insecure they are afraid you might quit if they say anything. They just want to get their rocks off. Those guys are life support system for a dick, not a lover. I've found that if my lover is pleased then making love or having sex is so much more enjoyable

Luv Ya

wasquic69 73M

8/28/2006 12:03 pm

I tried anal once - it was a pain in the ass. However I don't mind a light rectal stemulation during sex, especially at climax. When that happens if cum so hard it is a pain in the neck - appaerntly when you get older things are attached differently! LOL!!!

Luv Ya

2daycowboywanted 45F

8/28/2006 12:07 pm

1) When you find the right person he wont be embarrassed to tell you what he likes. He will feel comfortable telling you how he likes to be stroked and it probably is a combination of ways.

2)As long as they get it and you dont bite it off - hey they are fine!

3)You have to learn to relax - that is the key. There are many muscles in the ass area and you have to learn to relax. With that said just when you think you have enough lube use a bit more. There is no such thing as too much lube during anal sex!

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