Leading into the act  

swtexygirl1 33F
163 posts
6/12/2005 3:53 pm

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Leading into the act

I have to say that I am a very big fan of foreplay. I don't think sex, or making love, is the same without it. I've had my experiences, where there was no foreplay, where the foreplay was just about him, where it was just about me, and where it was about the two of us.

I probably could honestly say that if I'm with a guy who just wants to jump right into sex, I will most likely not be with him again. What's the point? There's nothing to bring you close together, to heighten the moment.

On the other hand, I don't like foreplay that is all about me giving a guy a blow job, and then move into sex. I had a guy talk to me the other night that I had been in a relationship tell me that he was sorry he'd missed my birthday. He wanted me to "blow out my candle." What the hell! Ummm, its my birthday, shouldn't I be the one who's being "appreciated?"

I also don't like foreplay where its all about me. Okay, I take that back, I love it, BUT, it makes me feel useless sometimes. Like the guy, even though he says its okay, is going to be upset because I didn't do for him like he's doing for me.

So that only leaves one. I love foreplay when the two of you sit for hours enjoying eachother's bodies. I want to run my hands over a guy's body, through his hair, kiss him and caress him, and I want the same in return. We should be able to make eachother explode just by our touch. Then, we should be able to move onto penetration. It is so much more enjoyable, I believe, after this type of foreplay. You feel more connected and more secure in yourselves. When I know that a guy has enjoyed every inch of my body before having sex, and he still wants to do more with me, I feel so confident and so extremely sexy.

Foreplay is empowering. It makes me feel as if this guy really does want me. He's taking the time to enjoy me before enjoying himself. And I hope that is how he feels about it when I'm enjoying his body.

Sorry if my thoughts sound jumbled.


need_4more2 44M

6/14/2005 6:40 am

Nothing jumbled here...that's the way it should be if you are into the moment and leaving everything else at the door! Can't think of anything more fun than hours of exploration with a woman that loves to be touched and explored! I like to please and be pleased. Sounds to me like you got the right idea

Play on!


swtexygirl1 33F

6/14/2005 9:54 pm

need_4more2, thank you. I'm glad you could understand what I was saying. Pleasing and being pleased, without penetration, is awesome! It totally raises the bar for the penetration...it makes it that much more intense!


bigdeposit 48M
3 posts
6/17/2005 1:52 am

swtexygirl1: foreplay and making my lover feel at ease also gets the neurons and synopsis fireng in the ladies eroginous zones. after I perform as a grenerous lover, as take care of my lady in an emacculate tender, yet stimulating fashion, she will be pleased to please me by asumme the most sensual of positions - tits and belly on th ground with with butt in the air - and maybe even rolling said butt around in a maddeningly eroctic fashion


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