Honestly now  

swtexygirl1 33F
163 posts
6/23/2005 8:32 pm

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Honestly now


What is it that, honestly, attracts you to the opposite sex? Does this differ when you're meeting someone online vs. someone in person for the first time?

For me, when I'm meeting a guy for the first time, I think the first thing that I am attracted to is his body. I like taller guys who are a little bit thicker, now wether this thickness is fat or muscle, that doesn't matter to me, as long as they are thick. After that, I tend to go by the eyes and smile.

However, when I meet a guy online, I tend to go for the guys who have a nice personality. Someone who doesn't just come right out and say, hey baby wanna f***. I am greatful to these people though, they automatically help me eliminate them from my roster, lol. A guy who is intelligent and fun to talk to online is the type I'd rather go after. Someone who can jump from subject to subject with no problem, and no mention of sex. Shoot, I know that's what he wants, lol, he doesn't have to make it known to me every second sentence.

opensecrets12 36M

6/24/2005 3:55 pm

No matter how sweet and innocent we all pretend to be- I can't ignore the fact that the physical comes before the emotional and mental. You don't see someone across the room and say, "Wow, she looks smart". So, physically I always go for very curvy women. Bigger is definately better.

Once I get to know them, I'm looking for passion, intelligence and the ability to have fun without being constantly entertained.


swtexygirl1 33F

6/25/2005 10:16 am

Opensecrets, I totally agree with you. When you say, "Wow, that woman looks smart," you're using her looks to describe her intelligence. So at most points in finding a person attractive you are using their looks in some way. I've got glasses, I'm "innocent" looking...hmmm, I'm probably an intelligent woman, maybe a teacher, a Kindergarten teacher(which I'm not). Oh, but wait, I've got big breasts, so now I'm a stripper who parades around as Ms. Smith, Kindergarten teacher.

I also agree with you that bigger is better In every aspect. Thanks for sharing.


swtexygirl1 33F

6/25/2005 10:24 am

bullman4u, natural beauty is definately better. Myself, I hardly wear make-up. If I am wearing it, I'm usually found wearing a bit of powder and a bit of blush. I never had bad skin, and don't intend on making it worse by covering my face with something that will suffocate it.

Booty has never been something that drew me to a guy. All my friends like cowboys, and they love guys butts. I never really had an attraction to that, but I can understand where a guy would have the attraction to butts. As far as the breasts, you said that you can buy some lovely breasts? That's not "natural beauty"


swtexygirl1 33F

6/25/2005 10:37 am

Warren, no matter how long your answers are, I always enjoy reading them. Your paper that you're writing for me is just coming in in bits and pieces and I love it lol.

Your responses always keep me wanting to read more. Thank you so much!

I'm glad to know that there are guys out there who are attracted to curves. Its nice to know, since I was always thinking men are only attracted to skinny girls.

You definately have to watch out for pictures when you meet someone online. There are so many guys out there who have altered their photos, or who have posted photos of guys who aren't them. Opensecrets had a guy who used his photo, and the guy contacted me. I knew that Opensecrets was telling the truth, because I've experienced him in person, so we both reported this guy. I don't think it is right to misrepresent yourself to people...especially when it comes to photos like that. What do you expect to happen when you meet up with someone who thinks you have an 11 inch penis, and it turns out your photos were wrong and you're 3 inches. Hmmm, not good.

A sense of humor when meeting online is required for me, wether it be a dirty one or a corny one(that's mine, lol).

Sorry, my answer to your post is all jumbled. I was reading and answering at the same time. It probably makes no sense.

Thank you for responding Warren

Goddammit swtexy, why can't I write a short answer to anything you ask?


swtexygirl1 33F

6/25/2005 10:38 am

Warren, no matter how long your answers are, I always enjoy reading them. Your paper that you're writing for me is just coming in in bits and pieces and I love it lol.

Your responses always keep me wanting to read more. Thank you so much!

I'm glad to know that there are guys out there who are attracted to curves. Its nice to know, since I was always thinking men are only attracted to skinny girls.

You definately have to watch out for pictures when you meet someone online. There are so many guys out there who have altered their photos, or who have posted photos of guys who aren't them. Opensecrets had a guy who used his photo, and the guy contacted me. I knew that Opensecrets was telling the truth, because I've experienced him in person, so we both reported this guy. I don't think it is right to misrepresent yourself to people...especially when it comes to photos like that. What do you expect to happen when you meet up with someone who thinks you have an 11 inch penis, and it turns out your photos were wrong and you're 3 inches. Hmmm, not good.

A sense of humor when meeting online is required for me, wether it be a dirty one or a corny one(that's mine, lol).

Sorry, my answer to your post is all jumbled. I was reading and answering at the same time. It probably makes no sense.

Thank you for responding Warren.


Idunno135 33M

7/26/2005 11:18 am

<= That's me chubby shy guy and all.

Anyway, more on topic. Size about girls do not really matter to me. and I love you for liking tall chubby guys.

It seems it's so hard to find women who like guys like me, or at least find our body types attractive. Around here (I live in Houston) it's like everyone wants the little compact sexual pistol.

As for size of a man's thing. I dunno(heh, personal pun). I like trying to keep that a secret until I meet someone. That way all I could possibly dissapoint is their ideal of me. Though so far I doubt I have dissapointed anyone.


Idunno135 33M

7/26/2005 11:31 am

PS: I forgot. What attracts me to a girl first off would be eyes, if they for example, have larger breasts, I am sure my eyes will be caught there first. But then I go to the eyes. and generally the face. If a girl has beautiful face I know I will probably be attracted to her. But I am one who likes women for their minds. Outward appearance be dammed but if I cannot talk to a woman on any sort of level I will be turned off.


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