Almost 2006  

swordfish8888 46M
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12/9/2005 5:22 am

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7/15/2006 8:12 am

Almost 2006


Man I can't wait to turn a new leaf! Here's hoping the new year will be better for me. Now why would anyone from AdultFriendFinder care?

rm_girl20382 35F

12/10/2005 2:27 am

i'd care if you'd let me. don't worry, we're all hoping for a better year ahead. Maybe someone up there will here our pleas if we yell loud enough!


swordfish8888 46M
17 posts
12/10/2005 7:17 am

Hey, that would be neat. extreme1812 sa y! And although I'm agnostic, I do believe Someone up there does listen from time to time.


rm_girl20382 35F

12/11/2005 4:25 pm

Agnostic, eh? so you won't be celebrating Christmas?


swordfish8888 46M
17 posts
12/14/2005 3:16 am

Oh, I do. I think agnostic maybe the wrong word. I believe in the existence of a supreme being, and I believe in faith. What I don't believe in is religion. So what does that make me - an agnostic theist?


rm_girl20382 35F

12/15/2005 6:22 pm

sometimes religion makes faith more structured and understandable. Faith without a guiding force behind it would be like driving down the highway blind-folded. The thrill of your belief can overwhelm you to justifying every unexplainable event in you life as the will of a supreme being.

But anyway, i'm not sure what to call you either. 'Cause i think atheists acknoledge that there is a god but do not believe/worship, and agnostics acknowledge nothing. Not sure of my definitions...


swordfish8888 46M
17 posts
12/15/2005 11:41 pm

Hmmm, well said. Though my faith doesn't drive me to extremes, I'm the kind of guy who doesn't mind driving blind fold once in a while - if not for the thrill of it, then perhaps just to know my limits. Which brings me to why I'm here in the first place.

So what brings you here, friend?


rm_girl20382 35F

12/19/2005 1:35 am

Yeah, i guess you can say to test my limits, too... and i guess to try my courage to see if i can face up to my profile. I don't know why i'm really here yet. Probably hoping to find a kindred spirit... in the most absurd sites...


swordfish8888 46M
17 posts
12/20/2005 2:33 am

Your last statement reinforces my realization that most guys are here for the quick fuck, while sex is the last thing in most women's minds. Men gives love to get sex, while women give sex to get love.

I consider myself somewhere in between.


rm_girl20382 35F

12/20/2005 11:28 pm

how insightful! more often than not true, also. wish i could define where i can put myself in the spectrum because it would be too much of a degradation to say i belong to the women who give sex to get love... because so far i haven't.

to get off the topic for a minute... i just checked out the smiley page ('cause i just figured out how...) and they have a few wild icons in there besides the regular smileys. funny!


swordfish8888 46M
17 posts
12/21/2005 3:05 am

Yes, saying women gives sex to get love is kinda extreme.. but one way of putting it is if women feels loved, she'll readily give sex.

Same thing right?


rm_girl20382 35F

12/22/2005 7:31 pm

Going back to your previous post where you said you're sort of in between the extremes... was just wondering what kind of in between are you? Are you saying your the type of guy who would give both love and sex, or would you ... say... love a person but not give in to sex or vice versa.... did that make sense? Cause to simply complete the spectrum, you've got to either want to give both, give one or the other, or give none at all.

And, yeah i agree with you above because that is the very reason why men give love in the first place. Carnal desire runs deep!


swordfish8888 46M
17 posts
12/22/2005 8:31 pm

Though this is a swinger site and any 'relationship' is simply limited to to sex and just sex, I do know that a FilipinA's perspective is different. For the majority, she doesn't want to be 'baboy'-ed, she needs to form a bond/attraction/light-relationship first before jumping into bed with someone - no matter how casual. And with that, an implied responsibility for her emotional well-being.

With that said, I'm in it for the sex, but I don't believe in sex without the attraction, the tenderness, and the warmth found between two people that have shared something special. So there's a little teensy bit of 'love' but nothing more - esp given my circumstance. ;P

So what about you? "Reading" you, you're looking for love.


rm_girl20382 35F

12/25/2005 11:04 pm

Actually, no... I understand what kind of site this is and I don't think one can find love through AdultFriendFinder. Too much sexual contact is implied. Love is too much of a relative to try to look for it over the net. But I am glad to have found someone to exchange intelligent e-mails with!

I'm here for sex but 1)I'm not sure if I can go through with it, and 2)I'm not sure if anyone would want to do it with me. It's sad really, me trying to look for a warm body to cuddle with in these cold, dreary season.

Looking at it again, I think we're basically looking for the same thing: sex with someone we can be mildly attracted to. If we happen to fall in love with that person after, say, an afternoon of passion, that's just the icing on the cake!


rm_girl20382 35F

12/25/2005 11:05 pm

Oh my gosh! I forgot to say MERRY CHRISTMAS! Hope ur Holidays are joyfull!!!!!!!


swordfish8888 46M
17 posts
12/26/2005 5:51 pm

Ahh.. where are my manners!? Merry Christmas to you (belated and advanced) and here's hoping that your New Year is an even more prosperous one (don't we all want it so?).


rm_girl20382 35F

12/28/2005 1:13 am

I'm sure the new year will be better than the last. It always is, one way or another.

I didn't expect Christmas to be a fun as it was, actually. Right before Christmas Eve, I wasn't feeling the Christmas spirit. But when ur surrounded by friends and family, whether in a small get-together or in some restuarant with an all-night buffet... you can't help but be happy!

I really hope ur happy this season.


swordfish8888 46M
17 posts
12/28/2005 10:04 pm

Why would you say "..I'm not sure if anyone would want to do it with me.." ?


rm_girl20382 35F

1/1/2006 4:14 pm

Well... I don't know really... I guess you can say I have this sort of inferiority complex... wait, not sort of... I do have inferiority complex! I'm a bit chubby and not really the prettiest girl in the world, and I'm afraid the kind of guys I go for won't like me.

What about you, when you said "So there's a little teensy bit of 'love' but nothing more - esp given my circumstance. ;P " what circumstance were you talking about?

HAPPY NEW YEAR! 2006 IS FINALLY HERE! PARTY ON!


swordfish8888 46M
17 posts
1/6/2006 5:29 am

Well, trade pics?


rm_girl20382 35F

1/6/2006 6:35 pm

i'm torn. i want to say sure, but i'm afraid if i send you mine, you won't msg me back. if i say, send me yours and i'll send you mine, and you do... i'm afraid i myt never msg back...

it myt be better not to trade anything at all. this is just an online thing, right?


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