Just a Curiousity Question?  

swoosh5171 45M
115 posts
10/3/2005 9:02 am

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Just a Curiousity Question?

After convering with a few women on AdultFriendFinder, I'm genuinely curious to know what is the consensus when it comes to what is desired/anticipated from an AdultFriendFinder ancounter/meeting.

1) NOTHING but sex, no strings attatched (unless you're into bondage, that is ...LO

2) A friendship with the individual you meet with (the length and depth of which will be determined by each others actions after the meeting).

3) A relationship/friendship in which possible meeting(s) are open to discussion if the initial encounter is a pleasurable one by both parties involved).

4) No sex on the initial visit as the two of you just enjoy each others company, getting to know each other intimately isn't the reason for meeting, but would add to the experience as it builds anticipation towards a future meeting.

5) Something different from the above (feel free to elaborate ...)

rm_Screw696969 40M/37F

10/4/2005 12:07 am

Well, at first it was pure curiosity. After viewing the site for a few days it became exciting to interact and so I would get on cam. Then the focus switched to looking for a third (no strings), which surprisingly didn't take long. We were rather lucky to have found a really down to earth, laid back, and very sexy local guy and our first threesome was a hot experience to remember. We probably would have continued to "play" with the guy from time to time but we moved not too long after our encounter. Once we got settled into our new place I continued to go on cam and I would get a real kick out of chatting with guys (while we were both on cam) and making them cum. It was fun for a while but like anything else.....it got boring after a while so our focus became more so for looking for a female friend with benefits. Well, that search didn't go so well as most women we chatted with were either married and looking to swap or too far and we weren't able to travel. After not being able to find a single woman that fit out "needs" we considered swapping and opened our search to couples. We met up with 2 couples but for one reason or an other it just didn't pan out for us. Anyway, after that we pretty much started to lose interest in "looking" anymore. Now, basically hubby doesn't get on the site all that often and I really just get on for blogging. I honestly am not even really that interested in chatting anymore (unless it's with people that I've already chatted with before or are on my friends list). So that pretty much sums up the past 6 or so months for us here on A-F-F. Just staying standard members for now (been that way for a few months). We just don't think this site is worth paying for anymore. So is that elaborate enough for you? LOL

swoosh5171 45M

10/4/2005 5:28 am


I appreciate you taking the time to respond, and I wish you the best in any future endeavors ... "swoosh"

always_wet_4U 59F  
55 posts
10/20/2005 9:27 am


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