A Maturation Process (Or a Lack Thereof)  

swoosh5171 45M
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7/11/2006 7:10 pm

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A Maturation Process (Or a Lack Thereof)

Recently I've been informed of a large amount of ~^~ that a friend of mine was subjected to by another member of AdultFriendFinder. I'm NOT one to divulge the personal business of myself much less another person but when an individual goes to the lengths this idiot (and I'm holding my tongue due to my early christian upbringing ... LO did to attempt to hurt the feelings of a friend I don't think I can/could say nothing in good conscience.

I don't even know much (firsthand) information about the individual that initiated the verbal tyrade/attack upon the woman I'd come to know over the past few months as he and I had only exchanged Hello's in the Interracial chatroom when our AdultFriendFinder paths crossed from time to time, but his actions recently have ensured that even something like that will NEVER happen again. I've made post's to my blog about the contension I hole towards any man that would attack a woman (be it a verbal attack, or a physical one as BOTH are just as demeaning in my eyes), and any man that would dare to launch an unprovoked and hurtful verbal assault upon a woman that did nothing more than befriend him in a chatroom environment and explain to him that there wasn't an attraction that warranted a face to face meeting is probably the same type of man that would raise his hand to a woman if she turned down his advances after he bought her a drink at a club/bar. I'm not even going to comment on any of the ~^~ he said about myself, I'm pretty much obtuse to anyone displaying the cowardice displayed by the individual I'm speaking on presently, but I just wonder why this grown assed man had to solicit the assistance of his (supposed) sister (and her 20+ AdultFriendFinder profiles) to put this tyrade on before an audience of people that were merely chatting on a Friday afternoon.

In summation I'd like to advise this poor excuse for a waste of sperm (OOPS, I meant man) to kindly refrain using my name (AdultFriendFinder handle or otherwise) when he chats in the (aforementioned) chatroom as I REALLY can't guarantee I'll be able to hold my tongue if this scenario plays itself out again with me acknowledging/witnessing it.


geminigem74 44F

7/30/2006 12:08 pm

Your defense of friends has always been very evident T and whether it's upbringing or just your natural defenses that kick in, it's been great getting to know you and counting you as a friend...I can see why you get so many testimonials! Thanks for sticking up for me and thanks for being a great friend.


pookie3121 37M

9/3/2007 9:50 am

This is a point by point response to your comments about me

Recently I've been informed of a large amount of ~^~ that a friend of mine was subjected to by another member of AdultFriendFinder. I'm NOT one to divulge the personal business of myself much less another person but when an individual goes to the lengths this idiot (and I'm holding my tongue due to my early christian upbringing ... LO did to attempt to hurt the feelings of a friend I don't think I can/could say nothing in good conscience.

Wow…I been gone from here over a year and had no clue that this was just sitting here waiting for me…damn my punk card was pulled and I had no idea…oh well better late than never I guess lol…first off I am gonna say that I am not doing this to re-start this war because this war is long over, dead, and buried. I am responding to this (a year late but still) because there are a few things that my pride will not let me sit here and allow this to be put out here on public record. You may have discovered this by now but your “friend” set this situation up so that blow up in the room that happened could happen…I don’t know you, never knew, never had any desire to know you because quite frankly I have no respect for you, never had any never will. In fact over the time I spent in there and read and heard things about you, I found myself asking the question of “just who the fuck does this dude think he is?” The arrogance you present is amazing and kinda surprising considering how everyone loves you in there…but that says a lot about the people in that chat. The personal information that was passed that day came to me from your “friend”, in fact she told me a whole lot more about you that I didn’t even touch on because it did not matter, and still doesn’t matter. But this response is not about her, in fact, this response is about YOU. (Since you like to use capital letters to make your point) You call me an idiot because you are holding your tongue because of your “Christian upbringing” wow, what does it say about your “Christian upbringing” that you have your dick posted on the internet? Some man of God you must be.

I don't even know much (firsthand) information about the individual that initiated the verbal tyrade/attack upon the woman I'd come to know over the past few months as he and I had only exchanged Hello's in the Interracial chatroom when our AdultFriendFinder paths crossed from time to time, but his actions recently have ensured that even something like that will NEVER happen again. I've made post's to my blog about the contension I hole towards any man that would attack a woman (be it a verbal attack, or a physical one as BOTH are just as demeaning in my eyes), and any man that would dare to launch an unprovoked and hurtful verbal assault upon a woman that did nothing more than befriend him in a chatroom environment and explain to him that there wasn't an attraction that warranted a face to face meeting is probably the same type of man that would raise his hand to a woman if she turned down his advances after he bought her a drink at a club/bar.

Ok here is where I will address her after all….first off how in the blue hell can she say she didn’t want to meet me face to face when she damn near harassed me to fly to see her for about 4 months? Ask around to those that remember me and during the 3+ years I chatted on this site I never met anyone…I never wanted to meet anyone this was about chat and chat only. She called herself “befriending me”? If anyone was just being nice it was me because she was HATED by 75% of the room at that time. What, was I like the dude in the corner not talking to anyone? Again do your homework because I was one of the most popular males in that room before this shit went down. Ok do you call a “friend” every morning at 7 am for about 6-8 weeks straight? Do you get upset when you find out that your “friend” received pics from another woman in the chatroom? Pics that I accepted not because I wanted to see them but because they were offered and I was the “polite dude in chat” Because that is exactly what she did to me, in fact because of her I had to end friendships with many people in that chat room because she is a LIAR (see I can use caps too) You say you don’t have much firsthand information about me, so therefore you don’t have much information about the entire situation that you are addressing…the verbal attack I did on her in the room was warranted, in fact she deserved far worse than she got, you didn’t see the text messages and emails she was sending me, how she was using personal issues that I have/had in my life against me. I see you like to say “every action gets a reaction” or some corny shit like that so guess what: the events that happened that day was a reaction to the actions your friend put me through. She WANTED an audience because she knew she was full of shit, got called out on it and did not want to deal with it privately. If I remember correctly, that day I emailed and called her in an attempt to avoid the public scene that happened and she refused to talk. Now I hope she has found a man that can deal with her…lets say her various personalities and I hope she is living a happy life because I am, now that I have removed that cancer from my life.

I'm not even going to comment on any of the ~^~ he said about myself, I'm pretty much obtuse to anyone displaying the cowardice displayed by the individual I'm speaking on presently, but I just wonder why this grown assed man had to solicit the assistance of his (supposed) sister (and her 20+ AdultFriendFinder profiles) to put this tyrade on before an audience of people that were merely chatting on a Friday afternoon.

You can comment on my sister and question the legitimacy of that but again you don’t know me and you don’t know who is in my family. And my sister had more information that you have because she saw the emails and text messages that was being sent to me, she saw the attacks that YOU DIDN’T. You can’t comment on it because you don’t know the story…if you really wanted to say something to me you should have came to me like a MAN (since you are questioning my manhood), you know or at least somebody that you know could get in touch with me at that time. Now yes I did make comments about you, and yes they were unnecessary because my beef at the time was with her not you…you were just being you so I couldn’t really knock you especially since I was dealing with the LIAR and going by what she was saying. So you should have done your homework before you commented on that part of the issue.


In summation I'd like to advise this poor excuse for a waste of sperm (OOPS, I meant man) to kindly refrain using my name (AdultFriendFinder handle or otherwise) when he chats in the (aforementioned) chatroom as I REALLY can't guarantee I'll be able to hold my tongue if this scenario plays itself out again with me acknowledging/witnessing it.

Now this is where you have gone too far…”waste of sperm?” you can say whatever the hell you want to say about me, I don’t care it is mind over matter, I don’t mind because you don’t matter, but I take offense to that “waste of sperm” comment as a direct insult to my father. This is where you go from, little cute comments to make your buddies giggle to going to far…. Man you some balls to say something like that, what with your “Christian upbringing”, you can say what you want about me, but that comment is attacking a true man of God, someone you can only dream of being….you attacked a man who spent his life serving God, singing for Him until he was called home in 2005…yet you tell him he “wasted sperm”? Yes I have my faults and I admit I am not half the man my father was, because he would not have let a woman, no she isn’t a woman she is more like a female dog but anyway, he would not have let her make a fool out of him like I did so I am free game for attacks but he is OFF LIMITS. And you say this for what or better yet for whom? A woman that was already a proven liar at that time? A woman that during this entire situation showed her true colors and showed how much of a sorry, insecure, lowlife she truly is? Again you never knew the full story you only knew her story and her story was full of lies, in fact she told so many lies to me she couldn’t keep her lie straight…this woman is bat-shit insane and going by what she told me about you, I would think that you have known that by the time you made this posting…being a year later you may have found out by now but that does not erase the slander you created in this post. You talk about what I said in the room that day, you act like you have never been pissed off in that chatroom before…you act like you never reacted (oh there is that action reaction thing again) to attacks on your character, lies being told to you and about you, you act like every thing you do is with a clear mind…yea I said some shit that day, I wont deny it….and yes I did what was right for me at the time by leaving AdultFriendFinder. I have been gone over a year, met new people and came to the conclusion that I didn’t need the people on this site anymore; in fact they were holding me back. I came here out of sheer boredom recently and I admit some morbid curiosity and found your posting and I thought about it for many weeks before I decided to respond to it. I am not gonna comment on the female in question (well I have commented on her but not as much as I could) because the things I would have to say about her would not be very nice because after the hell she put me through from September 2005 to June 2006, and she is the only female on the face of this Earth that I refer to as a “bloody cunt”. Now you may not like that, but that don’t matter because this is not the start of another war, this is not drama starting, because I have moved on with my life, I have found a woman that is so much better than anyone I encountered on AdultFriendFinder, if you want true class in a woman you wont find it here, I had to learn it the hard way but that is life. Once I discovered your posting I had to respond because as a man I had to rise up and defend myself and most importantly, defend my father. I had to respond to this because once I knew this post existed I had to remove the last part of my past so I can enjoy my present and future. Your “sperm” insult was not cute and anyone who thinks it is can go to hell with you. Oh and if she finds out about this response, tell her that things still stand they way they did before: if she contacts me in any manner, I will report her to the police for harassment. Again you do not know even one fourth of the story that you commented on. . If you have anything to say to me, be a man and send it private to this profile, I don’t have time to do a public blog war, hell I don’t even blog anymore so my entire response is right here. A year later now this thing can truly end and the final word has been spoken on it.


swoosh5171 45M

9/3/2007 5:50 pm

"pookie"

You should have received an e-mail that will finally put an end to all the "he said, she said nonsense" associated with the incident I wrote this blog about. Since neither of us are involved with the AdultFriendFinder member this incident revolved around I'd rather not even discuss it any further. Life goes on, so should we ...


pookie3121 37M

9/4/2007 10:49 am

4 some reason AdultFriendFinder wont let me open the message u sent, but it is cool, I have gotten what I needed off of my chest and I am glad to move on with life without this hanging over my head...


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