threesome checklist.....check, check, check...  

swooness 34F
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6/4/2006 5:09 am

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threesome checklist.....check, check, check...

So, a threesome….well, although I have never participated in a one, I definitely have thought about them. Of course, there is the obvious choice of two males and one female or two females and one male. Of the two, I would probably prefer the less overwhelming scenario of two ladies and a gent. I will be the first to admit that I sometimes (more like once in eternity) have a hard time keeping up with one masculine shaft let alone two, especially with this tight kitty. But, when I think about a threesome involving another female, I know I would be just as picky when choosing a supporting female as when I do for a male playmate (yes, of course I would be the leading actress )

She would have to be the whole package….

1. Exotic like me: Although I do like the All-American type for my boys, she would have to be predominantly another race and/or culture (is that wrong that I am racial against white chicks? LOL ). I am Asian, so I don’t think I would want another Asian chick (besides, don’t think that most of you could handle little spicy me, let alone 2 Asians). I love the dark hair, the dark skin, and the dark eyes….so, Brazilian? Puerto Rican? Israeli? So many wonderful choices…like crayons in a crayon box. : )

2. Hot body (omg…I am starting to think like a guy…I mean “great personality”: By “hot body,” I don’t mean skin and bones. I want curves; I want the bootie that fits into those apple-bottom jeans; I want the ta-tas that fill out the skimpy halter top; And, I want the waist that defines the “hour-glass” figure.

3. (truthfully!) Great personality: Sarcasm and wit are a must ‒ these, when combined, have the ability to turn into playful banter without being too raunchy or direct. Confidence ‒ there is a fine line between being cocky (thinking that everyone is below you) and being confident (identifying your weaknesses and playing up your strengths). The Innocent School Girl - need I say more?

So, those are a few of my requirements…How about yours? When it comes to a threesome, which would you prefer? MFM? FMF? Also, what kind of checklist would you have? (Hope you are not shy..)


loadeddice05 44M

6/4/2006 6:11 am

Two chicks and the loaded one would work out nicely!! Somthing I'm not new two but If done right can really be a cool thing!! If not damn tiring??? Anyways!! Won't participate in the mmf thing! That's a little too much for my over inflated ego!!! LOL!!!!!!(what do you mean you liked him better??)

As far as looks??? HMNNN! I like WOMEN!!! Period..... But I have had several sessions and the best answer would have to be? It depends on the ladies! And how they compliment each other. The best memory I have is with my x who was tall, red, and athletic and a "friend" who was short and curvy!!! A nice contrast!!! Well I thought so!!!! LOL!!!!


swooness 34F

6/4/2006 8:12 am

    Quoting loadeddice05:
    Two chicks and the loaded one would work out nicely!! Somthing I'm not new two but If done right can really be a cool thing!! If not damn tiring??? Anyways!! Won't participate in the mmf thing! That's a little too much for my over inflated ego!!! LOL!!!!!!(what do you mean you liked him better??)

    As far as looks??? HMNNN! I like WOMEN!!! Period..... But I have had several sessions and the best answer would have to be? It depends on the ladies! And how they compliment each other. The best memory I have is with my x who was tall, red, and athletic and a "friend" who was short and curvy!!! A nice contrast!!! Well I thought so!!!! LOL!!!!
i can't imagine you getting tired...but sounds like a nice challenge.

(what do you mean you liked him better??)
hey, as long as she is still having sex with you, its ok right? just don't ask her who is in her mind during it

depends on the ladies! And how they compliment each other.
ying and yang, sun and moon, red and green....


swooness 34F

6/4/2006 8:19 am

    Quoting rm_kylegl2814:
    i would be afraid that we'd accidentally cross swords or something and the mood would be killed. does that make me uptight? it's only fun if all three involved are into each other that way. i've done the mfm thing once and it was ok, the fmf thing twice those were both something to write about. maybe one day in my blog. the first time the two girls liked each other more than they liked me. i was basically in the right place at the right time and had the required parts. the second was with two carrie bradshaw wanna-be's who were much more interested in taking center stage and weren't into each other at all. that one wasn't so much fun. btw, i've got an egyptian friend who is pretty uninhibited... she works in the fashion business and i could hook you up with her next time she is in the states
we'd accidentally cross swords
you men are soooo funny in that you compare them to swords or anything long and powerful...but i am sure yours is the only one that resembles it...

I would like to hear more about the more successful, exciting fmf experiences...

Egyptian....mmmm


work_out_nut22 44M

6/4/2006 5:01 pm

Great post by the way. As for the threesome I think your sexy asian flare plus me as the All-American along with some latin influence(Brazilian is a good choice) could add up to explosive fun. Want to take me up on it??


rm_4wolfsr 57M

6/4/2006 6:04 pm

The main requirement is a willing and open mind! I don't know of too many guys that are into MFM (myself included). However, FMF is a beautiful thing! I had long fantasized that my first FMF and what the women would look like. But once it got going, it was kind of a spur of the moment thing, it really didn't matter much about looks. It became all about pleasure. And guys, just FYI, you don't have to feel like super stud to get the women off. They do quite well with each other! And Swoonie, when you do finally get your first threesome, you'll find EVERYONE gets to be the lead role at one time or another. Happy Hunting to find the right match ups.


Think_Deep_Thots 37M
32 posts
6/4/2006 7:39 pm

My dearest swooness, how can you describe yourself in a threesome with another exotic beauty and a man, and expect any man to choose his part as anything other than the third member of that orgasmic threesome?

Especially with that suggestive picture you posted, damn!!!


rm_Bonerazor 37M

6/4/2006 8:17 pm

I have never been involved in a threesome (or other multiples). Certainly have entertained the idea many times and naturally that fantasy is always two women and myself. Not so strangely enough the fantasy usually involves women who are vastly different from one another. Older/younger, different race/culture, different body types, different personalities, etc.

I'd say attractiveness, personality, and chemistry would be my main requirements. People you could have a good time whether it's sex, having lunch, traveling abroad, or just sitting around the house watching a movie. I'd actually want to meet these women in a group setting such as lunch or over a game of pool to see if things are clicking between all 3 of us.


gamecock08 45M

6/4/2006 9:05 pm

FMF all the way! There is no way I could get excited with another man's hairy ass hovering over the action. Plus the mere chance that I could be shot by some guys bodily fluids would be enough to make my schlong shrivel and hide for the night. No way...will never happen....no chopsticks here! Two women though, I've had a couple of close calls that have not panned out...actually went out with a woman I had been seeing and we tried to find another woman to join us...that was a funny night. No big loss though. All I need is one really good woman and I'm a happy man. I think the sex is so much better and more erotic when two people are completely focused on each other without having that third party in there trying to get off too.


swooness 34F

6/5/2006 1:16 pm

    Quoting work_out_nut22:
    Great post by the way. As for the threesome I think your sexy asian flare plus me as the All-American along with some latin influence(Brazilian is a good choice) could add up to explosive fun. Want to take me up on it??
well...obviously me included in anything will end in explosive fun


swooness 34F

6/5/2006 1:19 pm

    Quoting rm_4wolfsr:
    The main requirement is a willing and open mind! I don't know of too many guys that are into MFM (myself included). However, FMF is a beautiful thing! I had long fantasized that my first FMF and what the women would look like. But once it got going, it was kind of a spur of the moment thing, it really didn't matter much about looks. It became all about pleasure. And guys, just FYI, you don't have to feel like super stud to get the women off. They do quite well with each other! And Swoonie, when you do finally get your first threesome, you'll find EVERYONE gets to be the lead role at one time or another. Happy Hunting to find the right match ups.
you'll find EVERYONE gets to be the lead role at one time or another.
sorry..i'm a typical chick in that i like the center role, attention but i guess since i advocate sharing, i should practice it....maybe


swooness 34F

6/5/2006 1:21 pm

    Quoting Think_Deep_Thots:
    My dearest swooness, how can you describe yourself in a threesome with another exotic beauty and a man, and expect any man to choose his part as anything other than the third member of that orgasmic threesome?

    Especially with that suggestive picture you posted, damn!!!
that picture? nah....that was just something i had and didn't think it would make much of an effect....you like it, huh?


swooness 34F

6/5/2006 1:24 pm

    Quoting rm_Bonerazor:
    I have never been involved in a threesome (or other multiples). Certainly have entertained the idea many times and naturally that fantasy is always two women and myself. Not so strangely enough the fantasy usually involves women who are vastly different from one another. Older/younger, different race/culture, different body types, different personalities, etc.

    I'd say attractiveness, personality, and chemistry would be my main requirements. People you could have a good time whether it's sex, having lunch, traveling abroad, or just sitting around the house watching a movie. I'd actually want to meet these women in a group setting such as lunch or over a game of pool to see if things are clicking between all 3 of us.
it would make things spicy if you knew these persons outside the bedroom like at work, church (hehehe - I am going straight to hell in a basket), gym....


swooness 34F

6/5/2006 1:28 pm

    Quoting gamecock08:
    FMF all the way! There is no way I could get excited with another man's hairy ass hovering over the action. Plus the mere chance that I could be shot by some guys bodily fluids would be enough to make my schlong shrivel and hide for the night. No way...will never happen....no chopsticks here! Two women though, I've had a couple of close calls that have not panned out...actually went out with a woman I had been seeing and we tried to find another woman to join us...that was a funny night. No big loss though. All I need is one really good woman and I'm a happy man. I think the sex is so much better and more erotic when two people are completely focused on each other without having that third party in there trying to get off too.
no way I could get excited with another man's hairy ass hovering over
yeah, I don't think anyone could too excited about that

I think the sex is so much better and more erotic when two people are completely focused on each other without having that third party in there trying to get off too.

ahhhh...the infamous third wheel


swooness 34F

6/5/2006 1:29 pm

    Quoting rm_kylegl2814:
    cross swords sounds so much better than touch dicks, don't you think? swords also come in the plastic decorative variety meant to do nothing but garnish a beverage
a beverage?


gamecock08 45M

6/5/2006 7:19 pm

I think he meant a meal...or at the very least a VERY enjoyable snack.


rm_kneel_be4me 48M
457 posts
6/10/2006 1:01 pm

I like the FMF threesome (you say what else is new). But I would love two asians. If you read my profile about my favorite fantasy you will see it there.

My checklist consists of allot of the same things as yours... Personality, hot body. But I also add Impish... she needs to have a little wild or fun side to her.


swooness 34F

6/11/2006 3:08 pm

    Quoting rm_kneel_be4me:
    I like the FMF threesome (you say what else is new). But I would love two asians. If you read my profile about my favorite fantasy you will see it there.

    My checklist consists of allot of the same things as yours... Personality, hot body. But I also add Impish... she needs to have a little wild or fun side to her.
impish?.....a new word - how interesting...totally had the opposite meaning for me, though


rm_suger123 46M
2 posts
6/12/2006 10:01 am

I too have not had the opportunity of having a threesome however I sure you know I think that it would be awesome and I would love the chance


swooness 34F

6/12/2006 5:51 pm

    Quoting rm_suger123:
    I too have not had the opportunity of having a threesome however I sure you know I think that it would be awesome and I would love the chance
thank you sweetie for your wonderful comment


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