Start of something?  

swngcplncosco 38M/34F
24 posts
3/6/2006 11:44 am

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Start of something?

Figured I might as well start this thing. I blog regularly on another site, but not about our extracurricular activities. We actually haven't done a whole lot in the last week or so, but last night was pretty cool. The hubs went to sleep early but I was way turned on so I cammed with my buddy from Texas and then with the hot hot hot guy across town. Too bad his in-laws were in or we wouldda just met up. Oh well...

I just posted a magazine article asking why swinging works. It's ceratinly working for us, but I just wanted to know others' thoughts. I do have my own. The reason we decided to was that we both agreed that we still had wild oats to sow and we could do it sneakily or we could do it honestly and openly. This way is much more fun and doesn't end up in divorce. Also, there's an element of newness and conquest that comes with being with someone new when you swing that after you've been married a few years just disappears. I think that helps it work too. I just wondered other's thoughts. So if you have any... Feel free.

winddanceri8u 54M
1 post
3/8/2006 3:59 pm

I'm winddanceri8u visiting CS from Oregon and checked the local groups and blog. I like your question and answer-think you nailed it. Swinging is a treat for each other and based on trust instead of cheating. Creates those 2 on 1 situations that I call gifts. Also there is chemical and biological changes that create a unique stimulation when strange is involved. You know sometimes it's just sexier to get intimate with someone where you don't know their bad habits or have argued with. Keeps the fantasy going

swngcplncosco 38M/34F

3/8/2006 7:35 pm

I totally agree winddanceri8u! You totally nailed it! I love the trust issue that comes with swinging as well. And there are times that I love getting intimate with someone I haven't had an argement with in the past week. Thanks so much for your insight!

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