What is a hotwife  

sweettantraTN 52M
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9/7/2006 9:54 pm

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What is a hotwife


off the net:

The term hotwife is often used to describe a happily married woman who enjoys intimate relations with other men, with her loving husband's full and genuine support, but where he typically agrees to be completely monogamous with his wife. Both spouses derive satisfaction from the wife's extramarital pleasures. The husband is not necessarily submissive, although the couple may role-play that the wife relentlessly flaunts her "infidelity" in front of her husband.

It is understandable that this arrangement can appeal to women with a polygamous nature, but it is far from obvious why so many husbands are genuinely into this seemingly unfair arrangement. The husband is turned on by his wife's adultery, whether this happens as part of a heterosexual threesome where she first has sex with her lover and then her husband, or if the husband is not present during her adventure, waits impatiently for his wife to come home from her date so that he can make love to her. You are forgiven if you wrongly believe that the husband is hoping for his wife to reaffirm to him that only he can truly satisfy her sexually. No, her husband gets more excited the more the wife enjoys her extramarital lovers! When the hotwife is back in her husband's arms, she will often graphically describe the intensity of the orgasms she has just experienced with another man or men.

The wife's sexual pleasure should not be confused with her romantic feelings - she is only in love with her husband. To minimize the risk that she develops a romantic interest in a lover, the couple has typically agreed to certain rules so that she for example only sees the same lover a few times, that there is a significant age difference, and that her lovers never are part of the couple's regular social, professional or family circles.

Hotwife relationships are often first suggested by the husband who has fantasized about, if he ever gets enough courage to overcome his embarrassment and bring it up with his wife. The wife tends at best to react with complete amazement, at worst with severe hostility - even if she herself has fantasized about being with other men. She does so for good reasons: whilst there are common biological reasons for why the husband can be excited by his wife's adultery, the reverse is rarely true and she therefore suspects that her husband has some other sinister reason for asking. Does he feel guilt because he has cheated on her? Doesn't he love her anymore? Is he bisexual? Is he suggesting this as a first step to later justify that he should have the right to be with other women? Little does she know that the husband's thought of his own wife having sex with another man tends to rank as the second or third most preferred fantasy amongst married men, and it increases with how long the couple has been married.

It is one of life's ironies that men with hotwives often become very committed to themselves being faithful the more promiscuous their wives are. The husband typically finds his wife sexier than ever before - even when they first met - and the excitement of competing for his own wife highly erotic and exciting. There are accounts from wives that upon becoming hotwives, not only did they experience great sex and fun, but their husbands became more loving and romantic, bought them more gifts and vacations and started to take a greater interest in household duties - classical actions by a man seeking to gain a lady's affection. Few wives can even in the slightest imagine that her no-nonsense husband who most definitely wears the pants in the house, possibly could be the type who would greet her with a passionate kiss in the early morning as she comes back to a picked-up house, knowing full well that his wife has just spent hours in bed being pleasured by one of her lovers!

Now, before too many wives get their hopes up - only a minority of husbands - although a sizeable minority - would react in this way. And most husbands even in this minority will react with traditional jealous rage if he catches his wife cheating on him and where no hotwife arrangement has been discussed and agreed to in advance. The husband's complete trust in his wife is fundamental for him to accept a hotwife arrangement.

DCEbony
1586 posts
9/7/2006 10:33 pm

Interesting reading.

Thanks for sharing!

Whatever did we do without the Internet? I don't think the term "hotwife" is in the Encyclopedia Britannica. LOL


big_dick_in_u 50M
10 posts
9/7/2006 11:59 pm

awesome


babygirl7422 32F

9/8/2006 1:11 pm

Very sexy!!

Babygirl


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