Just want to be surprised  

sweetncute76 40F
18 posts
7/20/2005 10:20 pm

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Just want to be surprised

I started thinking tonight that we all feel "undersexed" especially during those hornier moments, but ultimately, I think many of us want to just meet someone with whom we can connect in a unique way; that special someone (friendship or love). I feel that way. I have been burned in the past big time, but despite that, I am still hopeful. I know this site is all "sex", but does anyone else feel this way?

drinksprite 54M

7/23/2005 7:16 am

You are not alone in the world as far as feeling you need to find that special someone. Its is hard to do but remember that the best relationships are ones that are built on friendship that continues to grow. This is true in friends and lovers. Find friends first then build the relationship.
Do not think that your are alone by being burned by a relationship either. Been there done that and it takes alot of healing time to trust and communicate again.
Find your friends.

cupidfestival 38M
3 posts
7/23/2005 3:29 pm

hey sweetncute,
I liked ur profile and ur blogs..In short, I'd just wanna say that u seem like quite an interesting person. I'd definitely like to get in touch with you. We could probably go out for coffee or dinner and just get to know each other. I'm gonna be in Manhattan only for 2 more weeks but wud be great if we cud get in touch before that..leave me a msg if this sounds interesting, n we'll go on frm there...

48 posts
7/25/2005 11:52 am

It's not all about sex for everyone. It's fun to talk about sex...
be playful....tease etc. If you are comfortable talking about sex you
can talk or share with someone about anything. Once you get someone's
attention , then you can find out more about them. The key is to not
read too much into what people write on here. If you want to know more
just ask. For example: if someone says "I love to eat pussy....and I
want to taste your cum " doesn't automatically mean they will eat every pussy they see or want to. It could just mean that when they
find the right girl she will get lots of attention.......It could
just mean that person likes to talk dirty and is looking for a women
who enjoys that also........And yes it could mean he is trying to
find a women who just wants to have fun and loves to suck cock....
that is if that's really what she means. Be honest, have fun and see
what happens...

Kansas_man_2001 52M
28 posts
8/29/2005 2:52 pm

Hang in there. You're not alone. We're not all just in it for the sex. At least I'm not. My first priority is making new friends.

I pesonally feel it's important to make friends with someone and "click" first. Develop the trust that it takes to move beyond that point and become intimate. Make sense?

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