Jaded  

sweetncute76 40F
18 posts
7/26/2005 10:36 pm

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Jaded


I am sure there will be those who read this and look at the "mood selection" below, and think "where's the horny woman?" While I am horny, etc. I also am not navigating this site blindly with unreal expectations. So with that said, I am thinking about the issue of being jaded.

Someone recently remarked to me that this site might make me more jaded or untrusting. That was a great point, but I am not taking most of what I see very seriously, but it does get me thinking. There are more than a few "cock" shots on here. There are the few that do it because that is what gets responses most of the time, and then there are those that are very proud of their equipment and want the ladies to get a glimpse of what awaits. That's what this site is about right? I find it incredibly amusing. Basically it's like people thinking that the only thing they are having sex with is a "cock" or a "pussy" and not the whole of a person. Maybe I am overanalyzing this to a point, but it's something to think about.

I appreciate all the thoughtful and interesting comments I have been getting. Maybe this site will make me feel more jaded, but I think for me it reinterates even more that we all have to be very careful about who we trust. Personally I am not going to have one drink with someone and then have sex. Despite what my profile says I still get responses thinking I will just meet up with someone and throw my legs up in there. So for those that are looking for that, have fun and good luck to you, but please don't write to me.

rm_venture12002 62M
67 posts
7/26/2005 11:16 pm

You're on point.Most of what goes on is done by those who would never say or do it in public.Also I have read profiles with a title like (I'll fuck anybody anytime) and then you read the profile and she talks about how you must be her perfect man.I think most want one person that fulfills all their needs, but will substitute sex for a night so as not to feel alone for alittle while.I'm only still on here because I enjoy thoughtful blogs like your's.


rm_Heathenistic 46M

8/7/2005 9:56 am

From everything I've read in your blog, you seem really down to earth, easy going, know what you want, and just don't go out there and put it on the street. You sound like someone I'd enjoy talking with - and agree, - I need to connect on a personal level before I just jump into the sack with someone. There's more to it than just getting off - I can do that alone.

Sure, you could end up more jaded, but I would say if you take what people say at face value, you should be alright. Most people here just want to fuck and be done, or have a friend with benefits (which can be good in it's own right, but takes the right 'friends' to really be successful)

Hang in there - I'm sure you will be able to find someone that will be your reciprocal partner, and things will just click when it happens. Don't get frustrated.

Kent


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