how long should ya wait for sex  

sweetitalianegir 55F
21 posts
11/2/2005 5:20 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

how long should ya wait for sex

how long should you wait for sex to enter inot a relationship?

KevinNS256 55M

11/3/2005 6:12 pm

Definitely a challenging question. My rule is I try to acknowledge that the longer I "court", the more I appreciate and the more likely we're going to click. If we can't get through at least a date or two, it's more than likely not going to work anyways.... but that rule is only applicable to those that I do want to see again.

First date sex is perfectly fine as long as it doesn't create an obligation for a second date!

If it's any constellation, my favorite movie of all time is "When Harry Met Sally" and I think they waited 10 years or more! (not my preferred approach!... but it was cute!)

rm_DFB69 56M
2 posts
11/7/2005 7:27 am

This question is like how high is up. You should know after the first meeting if this is a person you want to be with. First date works but so does thrid or fifth date. can each person be open and honest about their needs and desires.

rm_Cum2David 58M
2 posts
11/16/2005 7:47 am

The important question is whether there actually is a relationship. Sometimes people simply give in to their animal urges and copulate, but that isn't the same thing as making love to a person when there is genuine caring. The sex is different too.

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