sexual exploration and my new toys  

sweethoneysouth 37F
517 posts
12/28/2005 2:01 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

sexual exploration and my new toys

OK so it took so long for me to get my new toy that i went out and bought supplemental toys from our local blacked out shop. I liked it there so much that i recently went back for another visit.

So now I have a drawer filled with toys. Merry Christmas to me!!

I was reading on this site and chatting with some people and became curious about a little butt play. Its always been taboo in my husbands eyes and we have never experimented. It started with people telling me that rubbing the anus is very stimulating for a man and woman. So lo' and behold i reach down one night and start massaging my husband who then jumps up and tells me i am "disgusting" lol. (My mistake here was not communicating first) I know better now.

So I then decide the next time we are fucking to reach down and rub my own. Well I liked this. (although it wasnt the most comfortable place to reach and try to be subtle at the same time). I then heard about rimming. Well I WANT to try this but I know that will not happen unless hell freezes first or my husband is traded in for a new model. so we will skip that one.

At the store I started looking for anal plugs. thinking AHA! Now i wont have to go all go-go-gadget arms, this thing can do it for me.

Well people, let me tell you through a naive persons eyes. WOWZER!! There are some big ones out there. Just thinking about it made my eyes start to tear and gave me this insane instinct to run very fast in the opposite direction. I think I looked like a deer in the headlights (either that or too much cleavage was showing) because the guy behind the counter rushed over to see if i needed any assistance. He found me a more modest one, suggested a new porn, threw in some free lube,and I was on my way.

I tried it by myself for the first time the other day. ANd it did make my orgasm more intense, and i came several times. I will be keeping that one very close,and who knows maybe my husband will grow to be more accepting as soon as he realizes it isnt going anywhere.

I have to run. Talk to you later

cincicreampie 46M

12/28/2005 8:51 pm

I've been lucky enough to have had a few women open to anal play. All I can say is "holy cow!" These women have taught me well and I have passed their lessons on to other willing women.

It seems there are men who believe that any anal play is akin to homosexuality. That is a shame. They may be cutting themselves off from some astounding pleasures. For me, receiving oral with a finger properly massaging my prostate gland (inside or outside) can be a damn near religious experience.

Rimming a woman can be a wonderful addition to oral or on its own. There is nothing disgusting about it. Being a leg and butt man, I'm all for it! Of course, what you get in return makes the effort sooo worthwhile.

mrsanders2 48M

12/29/2005 10:44 am

Welcome to the wonderful world of the truly taboo! I have to agree with cincicreampie that there is a homophobic attitude toward anal play and that there is a very strong belief it is very dirty.

There are very sensitive nerve endings around the sphincter and for men, the manipulation of the prostrate is akin to the G-spot for women--a fast track to mind-blowing orgasms!

Cinci also is correct...Rimming a woman can be a wonderful addition to oral or on its own. There is nothing disgusting about it. If you are worried about it, take a long shower first! I hope you get to experience this new pleasure someday--in the meantime, enjoy your new toy!

rm_slicer1966 50M
1 post
1/3/2006 7:38 am

Gee arent u one unlucky mama! i usually know the women to be squeamish, in fact my wife is one of these squeamish women!! Pity, maybe we should exchange partners.

jmw713 46M

1/13/2006 8:02 pm

Sweet honey I am in the same situation. My wife won't even consider the butt. I have tried to rim her but she thinks it is disgusting. I love doing it. I also like tohave mine touched and fingered. Again, no go. If you ever get the courage up let me know and we can satify each other needs, while still maintaining our spouses. Otherwise the agany of not knowing may actually lead to resentment.

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