My answer to the "WHY's"  

sweethoneysouth 37F
517 posts
1/3/2006 3:22 am

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My answer to the "WHY's"

I am often asked why I do (or don't do) a lot of things. While I don't feel I need to explain myself I am in a sharing mood... This post was spawned by a comment left in my "fantasy" post.


You are correct. I am a very horny person as well as likeable and attractive. I don’t doubt I could meet some great people here for great times, but I don't choose to. I don’t choose to "walk men around on leashes" because I have more respect for men than that.

I like to pride myself on being honest and direct. I joined this site to meet people to chat with and talk dirty with. While I do those things still, my membership has become about more than that. I have met some great people through this site. People I find witty, intelligent, funny... I have also met some not so great people, but I choose to forget them.

I enjoy spending time in blog land and using my blog as an outlet for my horniness. I enjoy reading the magazine articles. I have found it very interesting to read that others share some of my feelings. That I am not "alone" out there.

And come on... the pics people post on this site aren’t bad either. There is definitely a lot of eye candy around here.

If I were to fuck everyone that has offered me a "good time" then I feel I would lose a little part of myself. The part of me that is still somewhat innocent and naive. I choose to be selective because I like myself better that way and I would like to think I am more desirable that way too. I don't think passing it out like its free water in the middle of the desert will fulfill me in any way.

Hope this clears some things up for those of you that ask me "WHY?" Why I am here, why I wont meet them, why I am so horny...



cincicreampie 46M

1/3/2006 4:39 am


The why does not matter as much to me as the fact that you are here. You are kind enough to share a story, or a thought, or a fantasy with us. It is always nice to read the words of someone who's mind wanders in the same areas as mine. You're a horny little devil, and I love reading about it!

BTW - you make take a bite out of my ass any time you'd like!


markxxx1966 50M
2 posts
1/3/2006 9:54 am

Sweethoneysouth: You can be on the system for whatever reason you and and franky it is none of anyone's business. However, from my point of view, the honesty on this system is lacking at times. Alot of women on the system are only on for chat. And that is fine as long as the people they are chatting with are clear about it. Alot of people on the system like to string people along and/or tease them. I just wanted to ask you why you are so horny when it seemed to me you would have no problem finding someone to take care of this problem on a swinger's website. It just seemed illogical to me. Now it makes sense. You just like to let off a little steam everyone once in a while. That's fine, if that is what makes you happy. Just because I questioned why you are horny doesn't mean I expect you to screw the website. I am sure that you could find one or two people on the web to satisfy the itch if you wanted to. The last question I have is do you make this clear to the people you chat with? Frankly, my opinion (and that is what it is an opinion) doesn't mean anything anyway. But I don't blog my opinions and if I did I would be willing to take a little bit of heat for them every once in a while if I did, like now.

mrsanders2 48M

1/3/2006 10:12 am

I love the new pic...your eyes match that cute smile of yours!
You are definitely an interesting person and I really like reading your blog. Plus, as you said, the commute home is a long time and can certainly be more entertaing as one remembers what was written in a favorite blog or an email! Helps the time to pass! Perhaps one day you will venture out on a Meet and Greet in our area (we are hoping to start a regular one on the 2nd and 4th Wednesdays each month in Central Park). However, if it is not to be--I will still appreciate your thoughts and share your frustrations!
By the way...part of your charm is the part of you that is "somewhat innocent and naive!" And for me, personally, I love your smile!

sweethoneysouth 37F
280 posts
1/3/2006 11:13 am

MArkxxx - dont take me wrong. you arent catching any heat from me. i like questions asked that make me think. if i sounded on the defense i am sorry. i make it clear i dont do face to face from the beginning. i try not to mislead or misrepresent. although there have been some that have tempted me to meet... so far i have remained strong. lol

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