Masterbating in front of others  

sweetest_sin_05 37M/37F
27 posts
9/19/2005 9:20 am

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Masterbating in front of others

I took the plunge last night and did something that I have never done before. Masterbation in front of someone else. Sure, I've touched myself openly during sex before. But, never to this extent.

It was a really good experience. I'll admit, I felt kind of foolish at first (and afterwards) but while I was doing it, I felt good. I had a few beers beforehand, so I was being extremely silly when he first started putting the moves on me.

I thought about how he had asked me to videotape myself masterbating for him, and also how he said he wanted to watch... and previous to this I had not felt ready to share. The beers probably helped get me over the self-conscious speedbump. That's fine by me.

I finally decided that I would take control of the situation and give him a show. I pulled out the massage oils and began massaging my chest while straddling him. It was really erotic, especially since I wasn't allowing him to particpate in any way. I rubbed my breasts, inches from his face... kissed his neck a little, but never his lips. Talk about a tease! It was great.

I got some more oil, straddled him again but faced away and began massaging my ass, lower back and thighs. The fact that I could not see his face was helping me out a little - that way I could focus on how it felt for me and not how he was looking at me. I massaged and spread the oil generously as I rubbed my wetness against him.

After a bit, I told him I wanted to lay down. I went to the end of the bed and watched as I massaged my thighs some more, and finally began masterbating with just my hands. I came so close so many times, but didn't allow myself to orgasm. I wanted him in me, so bad... but held off on any invites. I told him to get me the vibrators.

I ended up beating the hell out of myself with the big vibrator we have. I didn't turn it on, only used it for penetration. I tried to use the rabbit at the same time but was unsuccessful. My hands were slippery with oil and I was unable to achieve the sensations that I was looking for, so I put the rabbit down and just stuck with my hands.

I had some incredible orgasms. All the while, he was encouraging me... talking dirty and telling me to fuck myself. It was really hot. I told him later that I was imagining that I didn't know him... that he was some stranger watching me do this, and that was such a turn on. He didn't mind, which is nice. It wasn't as if I was pretending he was someone else completely... I was more interested in the voyeur/stranger type thing. He talked to me afterwards about how he is still interested in making videos, taking pictures, and maybe someday having sex in front of others. We had put all of that stuff on hold. I don't know if I will ever be up for the other people stuff with him again, but videos and pictures are good. I miss doing that.

It was a really good experience, and I am glad we tried it. He gave himself a really big orgasm from watching me, and that makes me feel good. I wondered how sexy it would look for me to masterbate like that, but I suppose we all are our own worst critics. It appears like it was a success in his opinion... so I'm glad for that.

realmom2 58M/50F

9/19/2005 3:18 pm

My orgasms are much stronger when I masturbate in front of others, especially when it's with someone I just met. Men just seem to love watching a women masturbate, and I'm more than happy to oblidge. Thanks for sharing your experience.

sweetest_sin_05 37M/37F

9/19/2005 7:42 pm

realmom - I was actually amazed at how intense it was with him watching... it's already pretty intense by myself but with an audience... woo hoo!

rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
9/23/2005 10:49 am

Sweetest...realmom...need a volunteer?

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sweetest_sin_05 37M/37F

9/23/2005 1:33 pm

Tall! You are supposed to come to my blog and offer your services to ME. I see how it is. You're fired. LOL

MillsShipsGayly 51M

9/24/2005 10:58 pm

hehehhehe .. wrote this little poem in caiku structure on mutual masturbation:

Penetrating eyes
Apart yet locked together
Watch me; complete me

sweetest_sin_05 37M/37F

9/25/2005 5:20 am

Michael - very nice! Thank you for that.

pussinboots4u 50M/47F

10/1/2005 5:05 pm

Very sexy!!! I love teasing and being teased is just as fun.

As for whether you are ready for a group situation, a lot of talking about how you both feel and understanding what it means to both of you is extremely important. You can start out by not having any intention of doing anything, but trying out swing clubs. You really have to be comfortable with it to enjoy it. Maybe seeing others be comfortable in front of you will make you more comfortable being able to be comfortable in front of them. Take your time.

sweetest_sin_05 37M/37F

10/1/2005 9:54 pm

Thanks pussinboots... I don't know what we are going to end up doing. After knowing he was with another woman sexually behind my back, I don't know if there is ever a chance I will be ok with him doing it in front of me.

girlytoyplays 49M

12/21/2005 5:51 am

mmmm that was a great story.... id be very happy to put on a show 4 u

rm_bri28ma 39M
357 posts
12/21/2005 9:15 am

I LOVE masturbating with/for a partner. It drives me crazy to show off or be the one recieving a's so sexy to see a partner get aroused and REALLY be able to watch. What can I say, I'm a huge exhibitionist/voyeur!

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