When relationships develop.......  

sweetandchey 41F
21 posts
9/3/2006 2:25 pm

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When relationships develop.......

Alright, here I find myself 30 and divorced and looking for an amazing partner. I'm not a new member to AdultFriendFinder but have at this time in my life found AdultFriendFinder to be a great resource of new "Friends". I really wasn't active on here in the past. I have met some truely amazing people recently, even though I thought it would be near impossible to met such people on a sex and swingers site. I guess the thing that concerns me with all this is that the people I'm meeting seem to be amazing, great, quality people. Some have truely touched me more than they can even imagine. And others(one)I felt an amazing sexual connection with as well. This drives me to wanting to see this one more and more. My concern here is not to get to overly involved as I don't want to hurt anyone. So is it time to just let things happen. Let things go, enjoy the ride, what will be will be. If I just let myself enjoy and make my interest known it will either flow smoothly or it wont. I guess I just need to let whatever is going to happen, happen and not resist friendships or potenial relationship that may develop. What are your thoughts? Any ideas as to how I might better handle this?


doingyouharder 49M

9/3/2006 5:09 pm

i think the reason you find so many amazing people on this swinger's sex site is that people who are open sexually are the most open people there are! i believe it is almost a frontier in a way and the people you meet along the way are kindred adventurers and mavericks. at the very least any person who has come to realize that only by reinventing yourself can you truly discover who you are is continually on the verge of personal discovery and this process of discovery makes humble, open, tender people. of course, this is not the case with every person on here. i am not so naiive as to think that and neither are you! the world is sick, but many, many people know this and are interested in making it better one hot, hard, throbbing orgasm at a time. ha ha ha! what a ride...

welcome to the club and my best wishes in absolutely all things.

~t
ithaca, NY


Exceller22 55M
119 posts
9/5/2006 10:26 am

Just let it happen, sweetheart. You never know who you might meet or what doors may open up for you. You're young and have the whole world in front of you. So just sit back, relax and enjoy the ride.


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