Why must my daughter love this asshole?  

sunshinekzn 58F
1054 posts
8/27/2006 4:01 am

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9/3/2006 6:01 am

Why must my daughter love this asshole?

I have the most amazing grandson. He is 4 months going 5 months old. He is the cutes and best behaved baby I have ever seen. He hardly ever cries.

I am sitting here trying to control my temper because if I get up now I will kill his dad.

His dad has slept all morning. It is now 12h50pm. His mother has just woken his dad and asked him to hold him for 5 min while she makes food for baby.

Now the asshole is swearing and causing hell as the "darn baby is crying." and " What the hell is the matter with him". The fact that baby is hungry and is not really crying but just moaning is too much for asshole to comprehend.

Having had the most patient hubby to help me with my kids, I cannot handle this dumb ass's attitude!!!!



redmustang91 57M  
8656 posts
8/27/2006 5:15 am

He will learn, baby will grow and life goes on. children teach you to be giving even if you are not, by their being needy...


elysianpleasure 47M

8/27/2006 7:12 pm

You daughters choice... she will eventually figure it out for herself, he will figure it out... but the best thing you can do is not get in the middle of it.

... oh btw... he is cute And you sound like a wonderfully proud grandma!!!! All the best.


sunshinekzn 58F

8/28/2006 12:41 am

    Quoting redmustang91:
    He will learn, baby will grow and life goes on. children teach you to be giving even if you are not, by their being needy...
Thanks for the reply!!!! I did the right thing not getting involved. My daughter did handle the problem herself. So I am grateful I wrote this blog instead of rushing in!


sunshinekzn 58F

8/28/2006 12:42 am

    Quoting elysianpleasure:
    You daughters choice... she will eventually figure it out for herself, he will figure it out... but the best thing you can do is not get in the middle of it.

    ... oh btw... he is cute And you sound like a wonderfully proud grandma!!!! All the best.
Thanks as you can see I did not get involved. He is cute!!! Take care!


rm_FATDICK4UR69 59M

8/30/2006 2:49 am

There is an old saying that goes... I cried because I had no shoes, until i met a man who had no feet. The reason I write this, is because, it always seems like you have it bad, but remember there is always someone who has it worse. For example... my daughter who is 28 years old, she had 2 children. my wonderful grandsons (9 and 5). These boys have 2 different fathers. The father of the oldest, vanished, dead beat dad number one, (DBD #1). The father of the youngest is a jailbird, (DBD #2). My daughter is irresponsible. So guess where my 2 grandsons live. Yes! With me. They have been with me for 4 years. Now think about the time line here. 9&5 minus 4 years. They came here at 5 and 1. Poop, pee, potty training, school, the whole nine yards. Where is she? Well, she's off "living her life". While grandpa raises her kids. I get no help from her or DBD #1&2. Isn't life grand?! Thanks and best of luck, steven.


warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
8/30/2006 5:56 pm

I can understand your anger. You want the reassurance that your daughter's man will be there to support her, and this does not look at all that way.

warm xx


sunshinekzn 58F

9/3/2006 6:01 am

It been a week since writing the blog. My daughter told her man to have patience with the baby or find the door. I have seen him trying very hard, thankfully!!!


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