Lets have a party. Who wants to come?  

sunshinekzn 58F
1054 posts
8/24/2006 11:46 pm

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9/1/2006 7:24 am

Lets have a party. Who wants to come?

Yesterday I completed my final exam .... I am have now officially qualified.

I feel proud of myself as I can truly say that I have all the banking knowledge and financial knowledge to be a fantastic broker!

It has been hard work but it was worth it.

I am battling with flue and going to see the doctor in a hour. Monday I am going out there to start doing financial needs analysis.

On the home front. We went out for supper last night. Hubby and I spoke about everything that has gone on. He made a promise to start treating me like the grown up woman I am.

My AdultFriendFinder profile is my own. He will not be checking my emails any more!!!!

It is weekend ..... Lets have a party. Who wants to come?



sunshinekzn 58F

8/25/2006 9:02 pm

Thanks for being there and your kind words!!!!


rm_FATDICK4UR69 59M

8/30/2006 12:50 pm

1."On the home front. We went out for supper last night. Hubby and I spoke about everything that has gone on. He made a promise to start treating me like the grown up woman I am."

2."My AdultFriendFinder profile is my own. He will not be checking my emails any more!!!!"
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Let me get this straight. You're 47? How has it been to this point? You said, 1.your husband was going to START treating you like a grown up? Then you said, 2.he wouldn't be checking your email ANYMORE? Please don't take this the wrong way. I don't know much about British people. Is it customary for a South African (British) man to treat his 47 year old wife like a child? Here in America if you try to treat a child like a child you could wind up in trouble. Please explain this to me. If I'm reading you right, then what you're saying is, until you get a job you are treated like a child, then after that, you are a grown up? Point to ponder. I think a woman should always be treated like a woman, and a child like a child. From your other posts I have gathered, you have at least one child and one grandchild. How is it then, if you have given birth that you should be treated like a child? The simple fact of you, bearing a child, made you a woman. A beautiful, sexy, voluptuous, vivacious, buxom, full grown woman to say the least. I wish to know you more deeply, please! Thanks, Steven. P.S. I want to come to your party!


slowdancer9
3 posts
8/31/2006 9:19 am

Hey Sunshine
By yr exams i guess you mean fpi/cpf exams.So from an old guy in the business,ilpa since 1984,,welcome and good luck.
Ps i was in that mall


sunshinekzn 58F

9/1/2006 7:24 am

    Quoting rm_FATDICK4UR69:
    1."On the home front. We went out for supper last night. Hubby and I spoke about everything that has gone on. He made a promise to start treating me like the grown up woman I am."

    2."My AdultFriendFinder profile is my own. He will not be checking my emails any more!!!!"
    _______________________________________________________________________

    Let me get this straight. You're 47? How has it been to this point? You said, 1.your husband was going to START treating you like a grown up? Then you said, 2.he wouldn't be checking your email ANYMORE? Please don't take this the wrong way. I don't know much about British people. Is it customary for a South African (British) man to treat his 47 year old wife like a child? Here in America if you try to treat a child like a child you could wind up in trouble. Please explain this to me. If I'm reading you right, then what you're saying is, until you get a job you are treated like a child, then after that, you are a grown up? Point to ponder. I think a woman should always be treated like a woman, and a child like a child. From your other posts I have gathered, you have at least one child and one grandchild. How is it then, if you have given birth that you should be treated like a child? The simple fact of you, bearing a child, made you a woman. A beautiful, sexy, voluptuous, vivacious, buxom, full grown woman to say the least. I wish to know you more deeply, please! Thanks, Steven. P.S. I want to come to your party!
Ok let me explain to you. I married young. My hubby has always been very jealous.... and un-trusting due to his own insecurities. I am a confidant person in my work place. Climbing up the ladder until I became a bank manageress. Then decided I had enough of banking. Having a computer and lots of time on hand got me to join AdultFriendFinder. I enjoyed writing erotic stories. Hubby found out about it as he started checking my emails. I was forced to delete my profile from AdultFriendFinder as I did go and meet some guy's and he found out. Since then he has not trusted me. He insisted on reading everything I write and reading my emails. We have had lots of fights about it. I threatened to leave him and he said ok he will stop doing silly things like that. I changed my password to my AdultFriendFinder and emails. Only to find today he has again accessed my email and changed my password.

I am a grown woman and mother of 3 and granny of two and is getting more than fed-up with him. Now you know the whole story!


rm_FATDICK4UR69 59M

9/2/2006 10:07 pm

dearest sam, as you already know i've sent you an email regarding this thread. to reiterate, to me it sounds like your husband needs to grow up. also, let him know that the tighter he holds on, the easier it is for you to get away. and like i told you in the email, i think a jealous man may be hiding his own infidelities. after all it doesn't matter how jealous or unfaithful he is, i think you are well on your way to leaving that dead end relationship. who needs that sort of stress. life is too short. people need to enjoy life and flow with change. not fight it all the time. it reminds me of the three 'Fs'. there are three ways to live life and all it's adventures. fight, flee, or flow! the first two only causes pain and suffering. to flow with life and live life on it's own terms is the best way to go. less stress and more happiness. life is change. change is good. the resistance to change is what causes us problems. so flow on sam. enjoy yourself. free yourself from what is causing you to become trapped in a losing battle. after all a marriage isn't supposed to be a battle. is it? thanks, steven.


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