Very Discouraged  

sunflower75287 40F
53 posts
6/17/2006 4:38 am

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6/19/2006 7:54 pm

Very Discouraged

So... apparently... there are just games people play no matter what you are doing. I was very tired of the dating scene when i came here. I was tired of playing the games that people play.
It doesn't seem to be any different with people that just want to have sex.
So... how do i get around this? How do I find people that are just real. That understand that I don't just want to jump into bed with a stranger an hour after meeting them. No one seems to have the patience for that. I know not all women need it, but for me there needs to be some kind of a connection that builds. I'm not talking about a romantic connection. I'm talking about a chemistry, something in common, an appreciation, an acknowledgment of attraction. Am I asking too much? I'm not asking to go out on a date, I'm asking to meet for a drink or coffee, very simple, very easy.
And then of course, the one person that I do feel that connection building with... has totally bad communication skills.
Am I being too picky? Am I asking too much for a site like this?

TrueTxGtlman 53M

6/17/2006 9:00 am

Yes and No, you are not really asking too much from the men of this site. You have to know that there are about 8000 to 1 men to women on this site. there is about 7500 married men out of the 8000 so now you are really down to 500 to 1. I believe there is about 499 just looking for the "HOOK UP" so there is a 1 to 1 ratio looking for what you are looking for so patience is really a virtue on a site like this. Happy hunting and I hope you find all you want and need and sooner than later.


nightnsa 48M  
415 posts
6/19/2006 5:05 pm

hard to find what you are looking for in person or in the cyber world

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